Do you have casual sex?

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• You're not doing it right.

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  by Heather108 on January 22nd, 2009

• how do we get the partner to "do it right"? I feel like I can't say anything b/c we're not in a relationship. I want more attention on the ladies, but he's a straight "bang-for-his-buck" type person (and no, he doesn't pay me in any way for sex).

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  by Anonymommy on September 9th, 2009

• There are lots of good guys around that are fun to be with that are not looking for permanent relationships.
  I think it's better to tell them right after the first goodnight kiss that we can do this so long as it's fun and when it's no longer fun we can end it with no hard feelings.
  Some guys are happy, thrilled even, to find an intimate relationship that doesn't automatically lead to picking out china together.

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  by Heather108 on September 9th, 2009

• it's so casual we don't even kiss (which I appreciate). however, I'm in the market for something casual but more intimate. anyway, I just want him to enjoy my body - it seems as though he's just there to get the deed done (maybe some relief?) - and I really don't mind it, I just want a little more to get off on....

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  by Anonymommy on September 9th, 2009

• You could get that from a plastic dildo.
  Drop him and find a new one that kisses, and has fun, and takes you out to eat, and washes your car on Saturday morning... ;~)

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  by Heather108 on September 9th, 2009

• they make them like that? Lol.

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  by Anonymommy on September 11th, 2009

• Not exactly, but if you give them treats and a pat on the head they can be trained... ;~)

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  by Heather108 on September 11th, 2009

• hmmm. where do I look? regular places aren't working...
  or they get possessive and allow their feelings to get involved. it sucks!

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  by Anonymommy on September 16th, 2009

• Anon, first of all stay away from bars because the choices there are just not very good. Also avoid guys in pick-up trucks riding with a big dog.
  Take up tennis or golf, get a membership at a nice Gym, learn to skeet shoot or target shoot, because all those things will put you with guys that have the time and money for fun and recreation.
  Just be cheerful and friendly, taking care to notice the left hand ring fingers for the little gold bands or the tan line where a ring has recently been.
  Don't let anything seriously intimate happen on the first two dates, then invite him home for dinner or a cookout with the understanding that breakfast is up to him.
  Good hunting... ;~)

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  by Heather108 on September 16th, 2009

• theres a club in glasgow that if you want it, you just go get it. everyones high, drunk and horny...good way to get over someone :P
  not being in a while tbh...

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  by farseer on September 16th, 2009

• I've been to places like that but it leads to nowhere good.

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  by Heather108 on September 16th, 2009

• like I said, I've got a current f*buddy, but I want more than see-ya sex. I'm staying away from the bars, and the "good ol' southern boys" that heather referenced. been there, done that. I like the suggestion of target shooting, or taking up something recreational. and thanks, too, for the suggestion of leaving breakfast up to him....
  happy hunting to you, too!

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  by Anonymommy on September 17th, 2009