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by Anonymous on January 21st, 2007

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To those who have helped me before, I am still struggling & need some reassurance. I miss my ex alot, he pulled my hair, said to change or leave, used mean words, shoved me, I felt so sad in the end, I know it was abuse, but I need some help believing it.

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  • by kat tarrin-AYPWIP on March 5th, 2007

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    ive been there done that its not easy but you made the rite choice to leave.i never had the unbeleif problum cus i had(and still have marks) to prove it. but if you ever start to think that mabey it waznt abuse or beleive that you were wrong think about all the he put you through and ask your self"is that how i want to spend the rest of my life?" hope ive helped good luck

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    • He called me this week to further stick it to me....He is engaged to a woman he met on the Internet 2 weeks after I left. He has been dating her for 5 months. I have been gone for 6 months. He says he is truly, "in love" and added "it could have been you and me, but you left me"..... She, I am afraid, is going to experience just what I did. This will be his 4th marriage. He left all previous marriages for a "better partner", who he eventually abused, including me.

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      by Anonymous on March 6th, 2007

    • I know it's really hard to beleive it sometimes. But as others here have said, you have said yourself that you know it was abuse. I think it might be that subconsciously, we don't want to believe it, we still cling to what we wanted him to be, and we don't want to face the fact that we were abused. I know it's hard, but good on you for leaving and making a life for yourself. AND being proactive about it and trying to find a way through!

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      by Anonymous on April 27th, 2009

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