by matt kleviar on March 9th, 2006

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Why do I always feel that I am taken for granted in relationships, and how can I make sure that it doesn't happen?

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  • by Bloed... on stand-by on October 20th, 2008

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    The answer to this starts with yourself.
    If you feel that this always happens to you, then how come yóu let it happen to you always? Do you take yourself for granted?
    What are the roles in your relationships, how do you let your partner treat you, how do you treat yourself?
    Really, if you take yourself for granted, then you invite others around you to do the same.
    In many occasions, things like this grow. If you yourself focus on your partner always and never ask some of his/her focus for you, it will become a pattern that you and your partner might not be conscious about. By the time it grows too far for you, your partner may have the feeling that everything is allright.
    Communication is THE most important thing in a relationship. Talk about it. Say that this is how you feel. But first, for yourself, find out what you want to have changed.

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