by nimurm on August 10th, 2005

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How do I deal with a situation where I suspect my 17 year old daughter is sneaking her boyfriend to my house when I'm away and might be having sex?

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  • by frank peters on February 2nd, 2006

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    Big thrill, if she and he are doing it! If you are so concerned, why would you be away in the first place, if you wanted to avoid the whole question in the first place. Some answers are beyond me, stating placing web cams thoughout the place to catch them in the act! It's called trust, obviousley you do not trust your daughter! What were you like at her age, and did your parents trust you? If you did install the cams, would you really like to see YOUR daughter in a porno movie?? Would you have liked YOUR parents seen you and your boyfriend at the time having sex? Many parents say, do as I say, yet if you could look into history, you would find the majority, do not practice what they preach.

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    • Too much from teen's point of view - the parent is asking for advice in order to avoid being a grandparent!!!

      Grandma Roses - my avatar is my real dog

      by Grandma Roses - my avatar is my real dog on February 22nd, 2006

    • I think this answer's better than the majority here.

      Carmella

      by Carmella on July 31st, 2006

    • That's what birth control is for. Provide condoms and the Birthcontrol Patch to prevent pregnancy and STD's. Educate, educate, educate!

      Dullah

      by Dullah on August 23rd, 2006

    • Absolutely, I think there are a lot of "old fashioned" parents here and its making me believe people aren't capable of >maturity, trust, and intelligent respectful problem solving. It is not from a teens point of view, it is a display of good morals and good relationship strengthening actions. And frankly, she cannot control "grandparent-hood", and I should hate to think anyone can. She needs to support her, >educate(!)< her, and respect her.

      have mercy love :( forgive me.

      by have mercy love :( forgive me. on October 15th, 2009

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