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But does holding the grudge make you a better person...?
by l_l on September 17th, 2008
no it does not i want to lose the grudge i'm just not ready yet
by Minxkitty on September 17th, 2008
Any idea of when you may be ready ...? Could this grudge be holding you back in any way ..?
by l_l on September 17th, 2008
i'll be ready when the time comes, as for holding me back...i don't think so, i have healthy relationships friends wise, and have a wonderful relationship with my hubby now
by Minxkitty on September 17th, 2008
Well done, there aren't many people who can hold a grudge and not have it affect them in some way. You deserve a wonderful relationship with your man.
by l_l on September 18th, 2008
thank you very much Local, and it wasn't just a flop answer i gave you about my relationships, i actually "slept" on it as u can see
by Minxkitty on September 18th, 2008
By holding this grudge he is still controlling you and hurting you for the pain he caused lives within you. I know all too well about hurt through your children. It's the hardest thing to accept but I refuse to let him rob me of the happiness I know I can have if I forgive him and move on. He will pay for his crime as I'm sure your ex will as well. Write that hurt down on paper and then crumble it and throw it away.
by ballerina34@gmail.com on January 16th, 2012