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by Anonymous on August 8th, 2008

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Is there a mistress out there who can truly tell us what it is like from your end, when you want the MM to leave his wife 2 be w/ you and he never does? What is the emotional rollercoaster of dating a married man really like for the OW?

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  • by Leese In Maine on September 10th, 2008

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    I am also speaking from past experience. A decade ago, I met a man who told me he was separating from his wife he was so unhappy. Three months in to it, when I had fallen madly in love with him, he told me he was still married and living with his wife and kids. That explained why he never stayed the night, why his phone calls were sparse.

    I was dumbstruck, but already in love. He said he was going to eventually leave his wife. The lovesick fool I was, I believed him. To make a long story short, after 2 years of us breaking up and getting back together, I finally ended it for good. He tried to leave his wife and kids, but he moved back in 3 days later. That was the final straw for me.

    Dating a married man is an extreme emotional rollercoaster. She never knows when she will see him again, she constantly waits for his calls, hates him, loves him, wants him with her, gets suffocated when he's around too much.

    It's horrible. It's exciting. It's heartbreaking. It's wonderful. Emotional rollercoaster...yah....to say the least.

    I will never ever do it again. Never. I am taking a huge chance here on AB answering this question, knowing how so many people like to judge. My past is what it is: the past. I have learned from it.

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    • No judgment here, I think it is a heartfelt answer and a genuine look at the pain and heartache involved.

      Cognition aka Cog

      by Cognition aka Cog on September 10th, 2008

    • Thanks, Cog. It was one of the hardest things I had to do. Still breaks my heart to this day...

      Leese In Maine

      by Leese In Maine on September 10th, 2008

    • ((((HUGS))))

      Cognition aka Cog

      by Cognition aka Cog on September 11th, 2008

    • i did not ask this question looking to judge OW...I merely wanted to inquire about something I am sure many ppl have wondered. Cheating never has a happy ending. And I find it hard to imagine being the OW and therefore KNOWING he is publically committed to another. Women do not like to share and so KNOWING you are sharing is impossible for me to understand what makes it worth it for these OW

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on November 14th, 2008

    • This is a really sad and very heartfelt story. It shows the other woman for what she is -- a human being, not a monster. It is the man who made the vows to his wife. He chose to break them and string another woman along. It is good that you have learned from your experience.

      A

      by A on August 18th, 2010

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