My husband wants to pee on me and in my mouth. I told him how unsanitary I thought that was but it turns him on so much. Can anyone tell me if it is unhealthy. I really want to please him because he pleases me in so many ways.

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• I have been drinking my wife's pee for over thirty years with no side effects. Pee is 100% sterile if both partners are healthy. If you are willing to try it, you will be rewarded with a feeling of warmth and statisfaction like no other. It is the most erotic exchange of love between partners. Have him drink lots of water and pee a couple of times prior to your first attempt ! Most people do not like the strong taste and smell of true Golden Showers. If I'm going to drink it and I usually do, then I prefer the clearer pee. The "Golden Necter" of love !!!
  
  PeeNut

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  by PeeNut62 on September 4th, 2008

• (nauseous)

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  by Lori K still ignores stalkers and trolls on September 5th, 2008

• OK, Lori, it isn't your thing. But I think it's a mistake to tell someone their relationship is going wrong, just because you don't happen to like what they are doing.

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  by Prunesquallor on December 1st, 2009

• OMG. NOT the best answer, folks!
  
  My preferred first shower in the morning is from my wife standing over me in the tub and releasing her precious warm flow over my face and body; my favourite first drink is not coffee but the fragrant flavourful golden morning nectar emanating from my Goddesses body. It may not be every man's cup of tea (pun intended) and it may not be a mainstrean practise (pun intended again) but it is a lovely warm loving feeling laying under her, seeing her naked body poised over mine as she drenches me in her flow. (Besides being enjoyable it also does a great job of clearing my sinuses! Better and longer lasting than any medication. LOL)
  
  While you are certainly entitled to your opinion, there is no "victim" here. I do not think I need any "help" from anyone. It is my opinion that people who castigate others just because their preferences differ are the ones in need of help. There is no "objectifying" in our case and if you want to call me a toilet then I take no offense as I am proud to be her toilet in the morning!
  
  Our relationship and its practices are far from "dehumanizing", the golden showers are a deeply spiritual affirmation of our humanity and love. "Sadomasochism" is such a broad term and archaic term as to be nearly obsolete in describing safe, sane and consensual sexual practices that differ from the what is accepted by society. Those clued into alternative sexuality see our pee play and even the spanking she gives me as a "Power Exchange".
  Go here to get info: http://www.londonfetishscene.com/wipi/index.php/Power_exchange
  
  The proper term for golden showers is "Urolagnia" Look this up on Wikipedia to get some insight. It is not considered a "perversion" but is a paraphilia. The term "paraphilia" refers to a powerful and persistent sexual interest other than in copulatory or precopulatory behavior between phenotypically normal, consenting adult human partners.
  
  But to really gain understanding about the subject of Golden Showers and about the Power Exchange dynamic takes an open and inquiring mind.
  
  If perchance your husband is doing this out of a desire to dominate, tread carefully lest you rebuff his openness and hurt his feelings. This is VERY personal stuff and touches the very core or one's sexuality and their soul: He is giving you a precious gift in putting aside his ego, trusting you with such a revelation, and placing you in such a powerful position as to accept or reject his openess. So treat this trust and vulnerability with care.
  
  It may be far simpler: Perhaps he saw this somewhere and want to try something "kinky". The Internet is full of men peeing on women and vice-versa. While I agree that some of the images and vids appear somewhat "dehumanizing", depending on the scene and inner motives of those involved, tings are not always what they seem in such sexual play.
  
  It may be that you approach the situation as playful fun and no one is really "dominant" or "submissive" (Even those terms are not always what they seem to mean as in Power Exchange play the "sub" often possesses more power than the "dom", albeit differently expressed.
  
  Those who have no valid understanding of PEP (people exchanging power) all to often throw about terms such as "dehumanizing" and "objectifying" with little understanding about what they are talking about. They vilify alternative sexuality and paraphilias with a very shallow understanding of the subject, or for less than noble motives.
  
  I would advise the person posing the question doing a bit more research so you can begin to grasp the subject. Don't make a big deal out of it but perhaps a bit of discussion is in order once you begin to understand the subject of such paraphilias and the dynamics involved.
  
  The key is that such play be "safe, sane and consensual". Consensual means that, if, after considering the matter you do not want him to pee on you, or you place limits on where and how, then he should be ok with your desires. But do not either

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  by GaiasPet on May 5th, 2010

• I discovered my fetish for Urolagnia at a very young age after finding a discarded box of magazines (some would call these retro nowadays!) catering for the subject. I was at an age where I didn't have any preconceptions of sex and what a lot of societies see as taboo or perverted, to me all I saw was people sharing mutual desires.
  
  The magazines where from the 70's and for me growing up in the late 80's these images seemed to depict a time of sexual openness, liberation and inhibited sexual desirer's. This is a feeling I still feel today and one that I express in all sexual activities from kissing too watersports. I also believe that for me Urolagnia has an underlying animalistic meaning and acts like a pheramone triggering a natural response to induce sex and I enjoy nothing more than being covered in a woman’s scent and for my partner to feel the same.
  
  I just wonder if I would still have same desires if I never came into contact with these images at the age that I did? I just wish as people we could loose the ties that bind us to a life of limitations.

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  by MrMuzza on July 20th, 2010