My girlfriend has this fantasy; she wants me to pretend rape her. Now, I'm all for it because we trust each other, but I don't know the first thing about how I would do that. Has anyone done this before?

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• She doesn't want to be 'raped', it's with her boyfriend. It's the fantasy of it, the lack of control, the look/feel/sounds of it. More common than you think.

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  by altgirl84 on August 26th, 2008

• hmm, ok then. still sounds a bit strange though.

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  by huntergatherer on August 27th, 2008

• ok, everyones downrating me, but i still have my opinion. one of my best friends got raped, and i dont think she would see it as a great fantasy.

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  by huntergatherer on August 28th, 2008

• I never dr-ed you at all, just to let you know. And yes it's your opinion, you're entitled to it. And of course in a situation where a friend of yours was a victim of it in real life, you have all my understanding and sympathy. Obviously it's totally different in real life. I'm so sorry about your friend :(

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  by altgirl84 on August 28th, 2008

• its ok, i wasnt having a go at you in paricular, just whoever keeps downrating me. my friends not too bad. hopefully she should be out of psychiatric hospital too, when shes learned to deal with it a bit better.

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  by huntergatherer on August 29th, 2008

• Wow :( I hope she gets all the right help she needs and can move on in a healthy way, prayers to her.

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  by altgirl84 on August 29th, 2008

• i cant believe im still getting downrated for this. you might think the roleplay is good and all that, but i know from the other side, from what happened to my friend. i dont see why i should be downrated for that.

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  by huntergatherer on October 6th, 2008

• I gave you points hun because I see your view for sure. If you were an ignorant about it, I wouldn't uprate but I understand because of the sensitive reality from your experience.

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  by altgirl84 on October 11th, 2008

• thanks. loads of people seem to be downrating me :( i dont mean any of it in an ignorant way, i just know that things like that can somethimes be really unhelpful.

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  by huntergatherer on October 13th, 2008

• No problem, sorry for all the DR's, I've certainly gotten my share too lol. I totally see where you're coming from, there's a difference between ignorance and having a stand on something because of an unfortunate realistic incident.

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  by altgirl84 on October 13th, 2008

• ok thanks

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  by huntergatherer on October 15th, 2008

• I'm sorry you got "downrated" "littlegreycells-faillllled" - you are certainly entitled to your opinion and your opionion is NEVER "wrong" - and it sounds like your comment was influenced by a friend of yours who was TRULY raped - please understand that's NOT what "Barren" was suggesting when he ASKED the question !
  
  There ARE women who get turned on to the idea of being FORCED to have sex - the thought that they have no CHOICE in the matter and HAVE to engage in sexual activity ! Understand they don't mean REALLY "raped" ( by a stranger they don't know and aren't INTERESTED in having sex with ) - what appeals to them is taking away any RESPONSIBILTY for making a CHOICE to engage in sexual activity - they usually fantasize about being "raped" by someone they KNOW and ARE interested in sexually !
  
  My ex-wife was the victim of an ATTEMPTED rape before we met - she told me of going to a party at a private residence - using a bathroom off of one of the bedrooms - and three guys waiting for her in the bedroom with the bedroom door closed as they began to feel her up and forcefully remove her clothes. She apparently offered enough resistance they backed off ( 3 guys certainly COULD have overpowered her if they'd persisited ! ) and she told me YEARS after we'd gotten married she OFTEN fantasized about there being TWELVE guys ( instead of 3 ) and that they had been SUCCESSFUL in raping her ! She told me the fantasy turned her ON and that the thought of not having ANY choice and HAVING to let 12 guys take turns having sex with her was something she REALLY wanted to DO ! We talked about it - she REALLY wanted to FULFILL the fantasy - but I told her I wasn't comfortable with the thought of her being "FORCED" to do ANYTHING ! Since she really WANTED to do it we compromised ( we'd been swinging for some time anyway ) - we agreed to do a gang bang and have the guys SIMULATE her being forced ( they took turns simulating holding her down for the other guys and simulated using force for other sexual activity so they could have their way with her ) so she'd get the SENSATION of being "raped" without any of the NEGATIVE repurcussions that occur with an ACTUAL "rape" ! It was all CONSENSUAL sex and she ENJOYED it ( she STILL thanks me for fulfilling that fantasy for her ! ) but it wasn't an ACTUAL "rape" - it was a "rape fantasy" fulfilled - and there's a BIG difference !

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  by Anonymous on July 26th, 2010