How do I convince my boyfriend to stop smoking weed? he loves it, it makes him happy(he say) but I hate to see him destroying himself, but he don't see it that way. I don't want to be rude & I don't want to act like I'm his mom. Suggestions?

You can't convince him, and you shouldn't even try. First of all, you sound like you know very little about marijuana. Plenty of people smoke pot and don't "destroy" themselves. Pot isn't illegal because it's dangerous (look at alcohol, we all know how dangerous THAT is but yet it's legal...) it's illegal because back in the day some douchebag decided that making pot illegal would give him an easy way to get all the Mexican immigrants out of the country, because they were bringing in a lot of pot from Mexico. Not because it's dangerous, or bad for your health. So try and look past the anti-pot propaganda that you've been fed over the years and learn some real FACTS about marijuana before you freak out and decide to stage an "intervention" for your "drug addicted" boyfriend.

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i know i respect it but the thing that i don't like its that beign with somebody who is by my side but his mind won't be there, nobody has respect from a yunky, and when you have kids the story changes. i don't point out that its illegal the thing that i don't like him to be scaping reality, i feel like his life might not be good enough that he needs to smoke that to feel better, what? i'm not enough to make him happy? that's what i'm talking bout, i love him but i don't want him spaced out or just look stupid under the influence, or you are going to tell me that a smoker its always alert, awake, and full of energy?
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by strawberry_shake on August 26th, 2008
you're a moron.
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by chicky bambicky on December 7th, 2010

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