9 abusive relationships in 2 years. I'm only 14. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME!?

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• I never gave permission to almost be raped! I resent you're accusation!

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  by Disturbed in a Jr COAT is so confused on August 20th, 2008

• Don’t get up set at me, how am I to know that you were "almost raped". Lets get real, you have been in 9 "relationships" in two years and everyone of them has been abusive...what is the common denominator here...YOU. If you are not wearing a sign that says abuse me then you are giving permission in some other form. Furthermore, you have not defined what a relationship is as I asked! That is where we need to begin. So, pack the attitude away and let’s get down to business. Give me your definition of what a relationship is.

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  by Blackope-Knowledge is Power on August 20th, 2008

• A relationship is a (for lack of a better word) "bond" between two people. Wether it be good or bad.
  
  "re·la·tion·ship
  –noun 1. a connection, association, or involvement."
  
  I NEVER gave permission in ANY form! No one asks to be abused! Obviously you must not knwo what it's like to be abused. I was dragged into these bad situations. The abusers are smart. They knew my weaknesses at the time. The knew how to make me stay. Me staying gave them the chance to abuse me. That's not giving permission! That's a nieve young girl who just wants to be loved. They told me that they were the only ones who could ever love me. They broke me. Then they built me back up to what they wanted me to be.

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  by Disturbed in a Jr COAT is so confused on August 21st, 2008

• Your youthfulness speaks clearly, as to why you are having difficulty in what you have called "relationships". Here is my suggestion in a nutshell: You’re to young to understand what is truly involved in a relationship to keep the manipulative wolves away from you. This is revealed in your history of 9 abusive relationships in two years. I am curious as to where your parents are in all this, but the fact of the matter is that you should wait to mature a bit more before you start dating. You are young and have plenty of time for “relationships".

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  by Blackope-Knowledge is Power on August 21st, 2008

• As you said, you are a naive young girl who wants to be loved and you will not find true love in another person until you understand how to love yourself. Relationships are difficult enough for adults let alone a pre-teen youth. Spend time finding out who you are before getting into “relationships".

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  by Blackope-Knowledge is Power on August 21st, 2008

• I have relationships everyday. I have a relationship with my friends, I have a relationship with me family, I have a relationship with my enemies, and I have a relationship with everyone else I'm around everyday. Apparently YOU are the one that doesn't understand the word relationship. You're only talking about (somewhat) intimate relationships, not the everyday ones. I'm talking about more than the intimate ones. I have only had 5 abusive intimate relationships. I have had 4 abusive everyday relationships from friends, family, teachers, etc.

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  by Disturbed in a Jr COAT is so confused on August 22nd, 2008

• The last thing you want to do is quibble with me on words. Let me set you straight! You established that you have been in "9 abusive relationships in 2 years." You are the one who stated, "I'm only 14. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME!?" Don't come off as if you were discussing casual everyday relationships and not romantic relationships. If you don't like what you hear, don't ask the tough questions. You wanted to know "WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME!?" I told you!

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  by Blackope-Knowledge is Power on August 22nd, 2008

• I am not here to appease you or tell you what you want to hear. Don't like the advice I give, fine let it go and move on! Keep doing what you’re doing and be a victim the rest of your life. It’s your life, do with it what you want!

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  by Blackope-Knowledge is Power on August 22nd, 2008

• You're NOT giving me advice. You're TELLING me that I gave permission to be raped!

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  by Disturbed in a Jr COAT is so confused on August 23rd, 2008

• Okay

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  by Blackope-Knowledge is Power on August 23rd, 2008

• Good try,Blackope!

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  by Ms.A on September 25th, 2008

• Rape isn't an "abusive relationship". Rape is a crime. If you are a crime victim, you need to tell the police NOT call it a relationship.

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  by Lori K still ignores stalkers and trolls on September 25th, 2008

• Disturbed, you aren't understanding the advice your being given. You said yourself that you are a "nieve young girl who just wants to be loved", so knowing this, the smart thing to do would be to NOT get into any relationships until you can take an honest look at yourself to find why it is you continue to pick abusive boys. if you think you are mature enough to be in romantic relationships, you should also be mature enough to learn from your mistakes (which you obviously are NOT).

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  by lizardqueen on September 25th, 2008

• I was not actually raped by THIS boy. He just tried. But thank you for the advice Lori K.

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  by Disturbed in a Jr COAT is so confused on December 25th, 2008

• Lol shot Blackrope +++

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  by DannysUlto on June 27th, 2009