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I don't know how many sore bare bottom spankings (most/every spanking I remember was bare bottom) I got from both of my parents. I know I needed each & everyone I got and I deserved all of them (when I was little & getting them and to this day)! I deserved the number of spanks I got for each spanking and the pain I felt from each and every spank was very well needed during each of my spankings I got & needed & deserved and I felt lots of pain each time I got each spank during my spanking! Ouch! I can remember my bottom was very sore & painful for awhile after each of my spankings I got! I looking back, wasn't an awful bad kid, but if I were my parents, I would have given more me more needed spankings than my parents gave me! I got more spanks if I tried to avoid getting them, knowing I was going to get a spanking & more I got & more painful if I tried avoided them. The more you avoid trouble, more trouble you're in. Yet, I knew when I or if I had done wrong, I'd still got a sore spanking, I still pushed my parents buttons! I don't know why I pushed buttons, knowing I'd get a sore bottom spanking & even more if I tried to avoid getting them, when it was time for my sore bottom spanking! I'd cry about getting them and I'd cry before they gave me my first spank during my spanking! I hated my sore bare bottom spankings, but I knew I was not abused, I was being taught a lesson and I knew why I was getting one, I went beyond being bad & used all my warnings before hand, and I needed & was being taught wrong from right. My parents love me and I thank them for every spank & spanking they ever gave me and it's made me a better person! I can still remember my buns being sore & hating spankings! I'd do same w/ my kids in a heart beat. Times verbal talk needs more discipline for certian situations and spankings are a must! If spankings don't really hurt bad (not in abuse, I wasn't abused),then it becomes a game and concept & reason for spanking isn't learned! No abuse, but bottoms need to be spanked on the bare skin to get the lesson learned! No pain, no gain!
by Anonymous on September 22nd, 2009