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by Anonymous on November 24th, 2005

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How can I stop worrying so much about what other people think of me?

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  • by goldiemae on December 11th, 2005

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    Abraham LIncoln said it best in his Gettysburg Address, when he indicated that you can never please all the people all the time. But what difference does that make? What's important is what you think of yourself. It sounds as though you might need to boost your self confidence. Try this little exercise: Write down on a piece of paper, all the good and positive qualities and attributes that you possess. You'll be surprised how long that list will get.

    I have a dear friend who, like you, obsesses about what others think of her. And let me tell you, this woman is gorgeous, dresses like a fashion model, has been named employee of the month for several months running, was an honor-roll student in school, and has just about everything going for her. Yet, she worries constantly about her self image. Think of all the fun in life she's missing. Don't let that be you, my dear. Walk tall and proudly, and think of the people in your intimate circle, that you know love and admire you. If this sounds like a pep talk, then I apologize. But if you want others to love you, you have to love yourself first. I know you can do it!!

    Goldiemae

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    • you make some good points but the Gettysburg Address doesn't include anything about pleasing anyone, it's a Civil War speech

      LynfromNM

      by LynfromNM on February 5th, 2006

    • Thanks to everyone who has posted in this question. In fact, I will do that exercise now

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on January 12th, 2007

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