by Art of Drowning on August 8th, 2008

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I have nothing. No family. No friends except my dog. I have a BS job. Nobody likes me. I have scars from 3rd degree burns all over my body, including my face. Should I just kill myself? I hate my life so much. I need honest opinions please.

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  • by Anonymous on August 9th, 2008

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    OK, my friend. I don't normally answer the "I'm going to kill myself" questions but for you I will. I don't believe there is a god. That means no heaven, no second chance and no future after death. It is final. This is the only life you have. If you throw it away, it's over - end of story. You'll raise the gun to your head and pull the trigger. You'll make the local paper but most people won't even read it. You'll leave the world the same way you came. Pretty much unnoticed. Life will go on without you. It always goes on. Always. The world will get along without you. It would get along with out me and without anyone else out there. At issue though is you and only you. Things haven't been how you would like them to be. You are very unhappy. I understand how you feel. Whatever you have been doing in your life hasn't been what you probably should have been doing if this is where it has taken you. Life is a mixture of random occurences and choices you make. You can't control everything, just your own decisions and actions. You need to make decisions that put you in a positive position to benefit from those random occurences. You could liken that to "If you don't buy a ticket, you can't win". If you shut yourself into your house and never go out how would you ever expect to meet good friends who will help you enjoy your life? You could kill yourself today but you will never know if tommorow you would have met the woman who would save your spirit. Maybe it wouldn't happen tomorrow... the day after maybe? Who knows? If your unhappy with your job find something else. It doesn't have to be your dream job but a new environment is uplifting, everything would be new and interesting for you. You know your dog depends on you for everything. Hook a leash on him and take him to the park every day. Your scars might not be beautiful but I've always seen them as being a testament to the miracle of the human body. There are guys coming back from Iraq without limbs. They can wallow in self pity or accept it and drive on. I've met some very amazing people. They still have thier lives and aren't going to throw them away. It's all you have. Life is very much like the lottery, if you buy a ticket you could win but if you simply don't buy the ticket because you don't see the possibiliy then 100% you will lose. If the life you've made for yourself has brought you to this point then you need to start building a new one. If you want to talk, I'm here.

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    • Nice answer Dave.:)

      LoggyBren

      by LoggyBren on August 9th, 2008

    • Thanks, logybren.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on August 9th, 2008

    • Better than "nice". It was Magnificent! I have copied (stolen) it. Hey,..if it's on the net, it is mine, right? (smile).

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      by Tom 47 is back in his bear COAT on August 9th, 2008

    • That's what the internet is all about! Free, free, free!!!! Hahaha!

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on August 9th, 2008

    • Yes, yes and yes damn it!

      Darri

      by Darri on January 1st, 2011

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