by Ash on July 15th, 2008

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What do you honestly think of kids having babies at 13,14,15 or 16 years old?

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  • by Jen says hi - xx on July 16th, 2008

    Jen says hi - xx

    in tassie - australia - it is illegal to have sex under 17.. i personally think it is too you.. but then again i want a child and im almost 18.. both me and my partner are ready and i think im mature enough..

    my mother had me at the age of 16 and 2 other kids by the age of 20.. i like to think she did a wonderful job..

    but i definately wouldnt encourage any young girls to have kids young.. your only a child yourself and dont have the maturity..

    in ausssie you can blame the $3000 dollar baby bonus for half the teenage pregnancies.. its all about the money..

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    • $3,000 for a 20 year financial, emotional, and physical job that you may not be ready for?
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      WOW! Where do I sign up for these kind of wages!
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      Seriously, I wish you and your partner would reconsider waiting a little bit and enjoying the times you have to yourselves now. Once you have children, it really does all change and NOTHING gats any easier afterwards. I applaud you for waithing this long, though.
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      Best of luck whichever way you choose. :)

      The Chief

      by The Chief on July 17th, 2008

    • my partner is 25 and he has been ready for quite some time..

      im not doing it for the money..
      money should be no incentive to have a child.. you have to want one and know that you cann afford to raise it and be strong for it..

      Jen says hi - xx

      by Jen says hi - xx on July 17th, 2008

    • Bravo, Jen!
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      Personally, I think the money is a nice way for a couple to help defray the high cost of prenatal care and child birth.
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      Good luck with your attempts to get pregnant!

      The Chief

      by The Chief on July 17th, 2008

    • yeah.. but money isnt everything.. we both have well paing jobs..
      i wouldnt care if there was no baby bonus..

      Jen says hi - xx

      by Jen says hi - xx on July 17th, 2008

    • In July it goes up to $5000. But we still get better maternity leave peyments in New Zealand.

      But that wont cover all the costs needed for a baby and then child, teenager and eventually an adult.

      Ash

      by Ash on July 18th, 2008

    • No. BUT...you could put it away in an investment for the child! Could be quite a lump sum in 20 years.

      The Chief

      by The Chief on July 18th, 2008

    • Jen, I hope you haven't been convinced by your partner that now is the time to have a kid just because he's 25 and ready. You're not even old enough to buy a glass of wine at a restaurant yet.

      I'm 23 and my partner is almost 31. We are both ready to have kids now by have decided to wait until I'm about 27 because there's still so much we want to do (get married, buy a home, travel).

      Don't let your partners age distract you from that fact that you are only 17. If you waited until you were in your twenties, he would still be in his twenties. That is not too old to start having children, considering the average age for a woman to have their first child in Australia is 29.

      alexgenie

      by alexgenie on July 7th, 2010

    • Given the date of those earlier postings, she'd be 19 now, possibly close to 20.

      I'd love to hear how she's getting along, though.

      :):)

      The Chief

      by The Chief on July 8th, 2010

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