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by shortstuff on July 13th, 2008

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I can't make him cum! My boyfriend can't cum whether its sex or b.j's, he says its not my fault and that he's always had that problem. But when he masterbates he can cum within minutes. I feel really shit about myself. Is it common?

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  • by shortstuff on July 14th, 2008

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    Thats the thing, he doesn't masterbate often. Well so he says, it just makes me feel really insecure. The other day I was just at work feeling slightly horny. I text him saying "I want sex" and he text back saying "um we need to talk". When I asked what it was he said nothing. I just feel really un sexy now. We used to have sex regularly, we used to call it porn sex. We experimented, feel comfortable around eachother and now we barly have any. Once a month if I'm lucky. When I bring up the subject he tells me that sex isn't everything in a relationship, to me it is something... :(

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    • There are bigger problems here. It is not related to you. He is masturbating though I would bet money on it.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on July 14th, 2008

    • Yes , i have the same problem like your boyfriend , just i have sex with my girlfriend regularly ... Before i met her i masturbated , i don't know , maybe once a day ...
      I don't masturbate anymore , haven't done that for a weeks , and the problem is still there ... It is not that i don't enjoy sex , i just feel sorry for my girl cuz she is really frustrated and she thinks that she is the problem ....

      Alkap1

      by Alkap1 on July 16th, 2008

    • I think maybe he needs to get used to me more, rather than be used to the feel of his palm! lol i know it sounds funny, its because you guys can control it and know exactly how you like it.. I dunno, its strange.. :(

      shortstuff

      by shortstuff on July 16th, 2008

    • If you ask me , i really don't know how i like it , probably cuz of my problem... Maybe it's the same with your boyfriend ...

      Alkap1

      by Alkap1 on July 19th, 2008

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