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by Ian Meeson on July 30th, 2005

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My girlfriend would like to try sex with another girl and is happy for me to watch, but we've been told that it could destroy our relationship. Why is this?

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  • by A A on November 9th, 2005

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    It could destroy your relationship because fantasy is always better than reality. It may sound exciting but the moment you decide to do something with the other woman in the room or the day your girlfriend decides she doesn't need you to watch and is doing it without you, the trust that you share gets tarnished and possibly cracked beyond repair.
    Take some time to discuss with your girlfriend what is acceptable to both of you before you do this. Be clear about everything from touching and penetration to feelings about it before and afterward. Really have a complete discussion and think about how it could affect your feelings about each other not just how exciting its going to be to have a third party in the room.
    In short I recommend you don't do it, it really gets emotionally messy.

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