Why do guys go to strip clubs. is it just like a guy thing or does it mean like they are missing something from a relationship. because my bf is going ffor the 1st time. is it just to get in the experience or should i worry

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• Maybe for you....lol.
  
  I strongly disagree.

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  by R.I.P. Gerald Malone on July 5th, 2008

• i guess it is just something new and scary to me... i mean he isnt that type of guy he hates porn and hates hooters and if i point out a girl he is always like im not going to look at her and he is the same with his guy friends he never looks at other girls although he is going tonight with like 4 of his friend they all just turned 18 so is it like a coming of age thing for guys or what he told me i have nothing to worry about at all.. i guess im just feeling jealous

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  by ade on July 5th, 2008

• I think he may be right for some guys it might be...everyones differnt....

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  by bluegirl1417 on July 5th, 2008

• Any girl has the right to be jealous if her man is going to a strip club. I can't believe he is being ignorant enough to go. If he is truly like you say he is...why would he go in the first place? It isn't a form of entertainment. It's places like strip clubs, nightclubs, etc. that causes break-ups and divorces. If you really feel strongly that he shouldn't go, tell him how you feel. If the respects you enough, he wouldn't go to such a place.

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  by R.I.P. Gerald Malone on July 5th, 2008

• Yeah, you shouldn't worry

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  by Masculinist on July 5th, 2008

• ade I wouldnt worry to much atleast he is telling you he is going instead of trying to hide it...If he was hiding it thats when you worry. But if you dont want him to go just tell him how you feel...

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  by bluegirl1417 on July 5th, 2008

• Agreed bluegirl. :)

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  by R.I.P. Gerald Malone on July 5th, 2008

• i mean i trust him 100% i mean he is 18 i understand its i guess like a thing. i just dont like the thought of another girl turning him on. at the same time he has already said to me and his friends he thinks strippers are trashy that he is going to say he has and thats that... i know he only wants to go one more time and thats with just me and him so i have that experience.

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  by ade on July 5th, 2008

• Interesting...

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  by R.I.P. Gerald Malone on July 5th, 2008

• Strippers are not trashy. Ok there are a few but no worse than a few of the patrons. I have known many for years as they had relationships, kids and other careers. The money is good. What is better than loud music, drunk guys with money and getting paid for looking good? Most just like to entertain. As one exceptional lady once told me, “it’s all about me!”

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  by johndetroit on November 16th, 2010