by ... on January 28th, 2007

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I'm a guy married for 28 years and would still like to think I'm physically desirable. All I hear is I'm old, gray & getting wrinkles. Am I being too vain? Can make a guy feel pretty worthless. Maybe I'm going through the mid life crisis?

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  • by romelang1 on January 28th, 2007

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    How rude! Ageing is unavoidable, so just remind whoever is hanging it on you that they're not as hot as they used to be either! You're not being vain and probably not going through a midlife crisis either - if it is your wife reminding you about the grey hair and wrinkles, think how she'd react if you said the same thing to her! She would be spewing. I think it's just plain rude of them to harp on about what is an unavoidable situation.

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    • I agree with your answer, my partner has put on weight as is not as toned in the 9 years we've been together - but so have I!

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on January 28th, 2007

    • Thanks for the support. It does mean alot to know I'm not being too lame about this!

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      by ... on January 29th, 2007

    • when you're in love, TRULY in love, that physical stuff doesn't matter anymore. You don't care what they look like, you just want to be with them. Your wife should always be beautiful to you, and when your own wife insults you with something like that, don't lash back at her, because she probably has a good reason for doing what she's doing. She may feel lonely, neglected, or something like that. Like I keep saying, make her feel like a woman, I can't say that enough. And shame on you romelang1 for telling a man to insult his wife, that's HORRIBLE.

      The Wade

      by The Wade on November 1st, 2007

    • Mr Dude, You are the biggest imbecile I have ever heard from. I wasn't going to read anymore of you idiotic dribble but I was pissed all day thinking about the horrible prospect of someone as inexperienced, arrogant and ignorant becoming a minister! I live in Texas too sonny-boy and if by some tragic mistake you ever become a preacher I will be sure to remember your name and let all Texas know what a total nitwit you really are. You need to go get life experience, learn to understand people's pain, LEARN ALL THE FACTS and then see if you are worthy to come give marriage advice to a 50 yr old man that has worked hard to maintain a 29 yr marriage against all odds. By all rights, from what I read from your crap, you will make a VERY,VERY,VERY bad preacher. Do us a favor and don't do marriage advice you idiot.

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      by ... on November 1st, 2007

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