My girlfriend gave a back massage to another guy, but they're only friends. Was this cheating?

Ok... there isn't only two choices here. You shouldn't just consider A. or B.

There are middle grounds and I believe this is one of them. First of all there are a couple of different typed of massaging... clothing on/off, but thats not the point. Things like back rubs are middle grounds, you cant ask if its cheating or not because really, there are too many variables; is he a close friend and nothing more? does she or has she always given him massages? were they alone or with other friends? does she not think back rubs are anything intimate? are you tolerant of this type of behavior or are you just curious?

If you feel betrayed by this then talk to her and compromise with her. Ask her to put herself in your shoes. If you feel like she is just telling you things you want to hear... then PUT her in your shoes and see how she takes it (only if you would even consider to salvage a relationship with a mind-manipulator).

I, personally, would not go for this. If I knew my girl gave some dude a back rub period... I would be very butt-hurt because we DO share the same values and I know she would be hurt as well if I did that to her. You really can't ask for your mind to be made up by us. If you really want to have a successful relationship you're gonna have to establish better communication with her.

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