I cheated on my boyfriend by performing oral sex on another guy. Now he can't bear having me do it to him. How can I help him get over it?

Ok... put yourself in HIS shoes. Now, would you forgive him if he performed oral intercourse on another woman? Don't say you would just because you'd want him to. You'd be mmmadly in love to forgive that. Oral sex just seems like something more deliberate and thought out. I could go on and hit different perspectives but... you get the point

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He has forgiven me, the only problem is that he can't have me go down on him without any negative thoughts.
What i don't understand is how its more deliberate (thats what my bf thinks too). To me letting someone have sex with you is more of a violation of your body and more deliberate b/c it requires more planning. This was just a moment of weakness where someone i thought was my friend took advantage of me. Thats why my bf was able to foregive me, so theres no resent or distrust anymore. Theres just this one problem w/ oral sex that just got us stuck and i don't know how to move on from here. He lets me do it to him hoping that with time it will seem more normal, but we've reached a roadblock and we're stuck. Any ideas?
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by Chrissydoll on December 7th, 2006

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