by Maskkkk on September 7th, 2005

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How can a person find a relationship if s/he only works and does house work?

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  • by neoepiphany on October 3rd, 2005

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    Unless the perfect person for you happens to transfer into your workplace, and neither of you or your employer have any qualms against employees dating... it isn't going to happen.

    I know--I was in your situation not that long ago. I had just moved back to the US from a long stint overseas, had few friends locally, couldn't afford to go out much, don't care for clubbing and crowds, and so I ended up spending all my time either at work or at home. One day, I just decided that this couldn't continue and I needed to make an effort to find someone and make some friends.

    My advice would be to join just one group that has regular activities that you can choose to attend or not (so that you don't feel pressured to attend things). I would strongly, strongly, strongly recommend some kind of singles group. Personally, I joined a singles group at a local church. They got together every Sunday for lunch, and twice a month for social gatherings. (That was about nine months ago. I'm happy to report that the two excellent friends I made there have agreed to be bridesmaids in my upcoming wedding to the excellent man I met there.) If you don't have a religious affiliation, you could join any kind of singles' group though. Check your local paper (or community magazine if one is available). Usually they will publish a list of singles' groups in your community, and contact numbers. You can also look online (Google "Singles group, [city name]") In my area, there are singles groups for people who enjoy every kind of sport, hobby, fan groups, even groups for particularly tall people or particularly short people. (If you don't see anything that speaks to you, try taking a class, like a cooking class or an art class.) Find just one of these that you enjoy, and go to a meeting or two. I'm confident that soon you will meet someone, or make friends who can help you to find someone special.

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    • Good answer overall, plus your personal experience makes it really interesting.

      Jodie44

      by Jodie44 on March 21st, 2006

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