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by Angelina Stillgo on February 17th, 2005

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I've been 'the other woman' with this guy for about a year, but he came to my house recently and wrecked my shower while he was drunk and on drugs. Should I tell his girlfriend?

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  • by connie grieco on September 22nd, 2005

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    i was the "other woman" for 12 years and went through the same thing you are and yes we are together now as a couple but believe me I went through hell and am telling you to not go through with this relationship. My relationship is fine but could be better. After all the stuff I went through I find I always go back to those days and the hurt and anger always stays with you. And the thought of I wasted all those years waiting for him to leave her, I couldn't been with someone who treated me more decent and with more respect (you don't feel respected do you?) Your the one hiding your love and relationship. If he's violent on drugs and alcohol thats not good BELIEVE ME>I KNOW!!!!! My man changed for the better but like I said I will never forgot and you never really do forgive (you just put it aside). Thats one of the reasons I will not get married I am fine just the way things are. PLEASE DON"T SETTLE FOR BEING THE OTHER WOMAN!!!!!!! Even if you feel he'll leaver her, you most likely will regret it.

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    • thanks for sharing your story - a difficult situation, indeed.

      yoho05 reminds you to DYOH

      by yoho05 reminds you to DYOH on March 30th, 2006

    • Your answer is honest and forthright. Although, you're always going to be "the other woman," @ least, your advice is good.

      Answers101

      by Answers101 on April 6th, 2006

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