by UneFille on May 20th, 2008

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My boyfriend said to me: "Why can't you just be simple, and happy? I don't want any problems in life. I just want a nice relaxing life. You bring too many problems to my life and you are too complicated." How can I become simple and relaxed?

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  • by matt kleviar on May 20th, 2008

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    being simple means :
    1) not too much of expctations from the situation
    2) just live in this moment
    3) dont worry about future..
    4) dont hold onto the past..
    5) and remember, love is all about giving not taking.

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    • That was very helpful and excellent. :-D Thank you matt. I think these are all things my boyfriend would have hoped I could achieve. Men especially tend to practice these things. I think that is good. I suppose women worry more because they are supposed to take care of children.

      UneFille

      by UneFille on May 21st, 2008

    • : )))
      not really , but they keep lots of expectation and specially possesiveness to the guy who they love.
      expectations are fine but not giving space to the guy is really what bothres to almost all the guys..
      just give him space, thought you wnat to talk to him evryday and night, just leave him alone.
      I am damn sure, he will come back to you all the time and he will feel good being with you.

      matt kleviar

      by matt kleviar on May 22nd, 2008

    • : )))
      not really, bust mostl women keep lots of expectations and possesiveness for the guy who they love
      they want to be takem care by him all day and night, and they want spend and talk as much time as they want.
      expectations are still fine, but I think guy always needs their space in life, if you give that too him, he will definately respect you and love more day by day.

      matt kleviar

      by matt kleviar on May 22nd, 2008

    • But why do men want to be left alone all the time? Why don't they want to talk and communicate with us as much as we want to? Don't they miss us? Thanks.:-)

      UneFille

      by UneFille on May 22nd, 2008

    • no. the things do not go exactly like that as you think. they like to talk, but mostly they want to solve their own problems by their own, if they take help of somebody or they talk much about it specially to a woman, they feel fragile and vulnerable, thats just a part of self respect, their ego also might get hurt sometimes.
      and they also do not prefer to talk all the time, because there are other things important in their life other than talking to a woman which may include power, money, pleasure, reading books, introspection, peace etc.... they just need some time alone to feel their own existance sometimes.

      matt kleviar

      by matt kleviar on May 22nd, 2008

    • I see. That is helpful. Thanks :-)

      UneFille

      by UneFille on May 22nd, 2008

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