by Anonymous on May 4th, 2008

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Christians or Non: My girlfriend (who is also a christian and a virgin) is pressuring me to have sex with her. I've told her we should wait until we are engaged or married, but she doesn't want to wait that long. What should I do?

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  • by Anonymous on May 4th, 2008

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    If she can't honor your choice, then I don't forsee your relationship lasting. You shouldn't ever break a vow or change your values, when it concerns that, to fulfill your partner's needs. I would say find someone else that actually feels the same about sex after marriage.

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    • actually if both people consent then i think there's no problem there no matter what religion you are but one person doesn't want to do it because of values and principles i think the other should respect that person's decision in fact the other person should be damn proud of his/her partner for having such high values. personally i don't think you should give in, if she waits then all is good but if she doesn't want to wait and you guys break up because of that..then all is good for you too..its a win-win situation for you if you wait...good luck

      anushya

      by anushya on May 4th, 2008

    • Yes, if both consent, then go for it...like you said...but only one..and they can't see your choice and honor it...then that's not good.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on May 4th, 2008

    • I agree.

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      by Anonymous on May 1st, 2009

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