Would you ever date outside of your race?

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• Props to you. Coming out of an era where racism was major (not that it isn't still, but I think it was slightly worse 20 years ago) you are very open minded and have proven that people can actually appreciate other cultures and people of different "colors". We are all one people, but with different views on life.

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  by Positively Negative on January 19th, 2007

• I also dated and married an black woman (I'm white). She fits in beautifully with my family -- with the caveat that my maternal grandparents had already died when we got together. They probably would have supported me, but been less than thrilled.

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  by theredbaron on July 1st, 2007

• It took me long enough and I do apologize. Thank you so very much.

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  by Schatzi on October 9th, 2007

• My parents(well my mom) isn't supporting of anything she can't stand(my bf who is black) and disregards the fact he isn't like most teenage males. He is a good guy, comes from a good family, but she ignores his presense in my life, doesn't let me go anywhere with him, and sometimes i feel hopless. I have to constantly lie about where I'm going, and now he has graduated and she expects me not to ever bring him up again. She doesn't know we have plans to get married after i finish up college. This woman is scary...

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  by Liev4life38 on June 22nd, 2008

• You need to let her know how it is. If she's like this about your relationship with your bf, you can't have a very good relationship with her. I get that she's your mother, but if she can't accept the person you love, that's her issue. Maybe she'll come around, maybe she won't, but you need to let her know that he is not going away and she needs to deal with it.

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  by Positively Negative on June 27th, 2008

• i don't know how really, she gets so upset and im afraid she will die of a heartattack on the spot. I want to finish school(college) before i make any big plans. At least then, i can move out and kind of lead my own life for a while. Right now she doesnt know i still talk to him, and i secretly see him. He doesnt mind because he really cares about me. It really sucks because im a good kid...im drug free, a virgin, i listen, i do good in school but it isnt good enough. It sucks

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  by Liev4life38 on June 28th, 2008

• I agree with Acorneydog you need to tell your mom straight up or is their a reason she doesn't approve of your boyfriend.

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  by x Ghost x on July 1st, 2008

• I know

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  by Liev4life38 on July 1st, 2008

• agree.... it doesn't matter as long as you love and respect each other, it's not a problem...
  
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  by msuzuki on October 9th, 2009