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by shabby on April 24th, 2008

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How to cope with an old relationship which turned into a abusive but i love him. I dated this one guy for 10months and the last 8 months he would fource me to do things i did not want to do, and he would make me feel bad, following by an I love you. help?

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  • by Lozzy on April 25th, 2008

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    physical force or mental?? Both are forms of abuse no matter how "sorry they are", or how much they say "i love you" It is a disgusting CRIME, and i belive abuse of any kind will get worse as time goes on. Maybe your love is only there because you think there is nothing better out there, and nothing more that you can do... YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS!!! You CAN find someone that will respect you and treat you better!!! making you feel bad, is a for of manipulation, he has you right where he wants you, and if you dont stand up for yourself, it will get out of hand because he thinks you wont leave him and that you will put up with it..

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    • Well i dumped him back in october, and now in April He wants to hang out, and he has another girl ( 33 yrs old) and he wants to hang out with no one around ... like at his house and i know he will do that again. I have a new boyfriend too. and he just will not understand why i freak out when HE calls me .... or texts me .... or i get a e mail at school....its weird ... i mean i tried to tell my current guy about how all my relatonships fail and crash and burn but he just does not seem to listen... but at least he makes me feel like i am someone worth loving type thing... i just keep on having dreams where he comes to my house in middle of the might and i go with my ex and he makes me cheat ( btw, he did make me give him blowjobs and then would guilt me in to sex ... and i dumped him cuz he MADE me Or was going to til i said i would scream and i wanted to go home and never see him... idk... that just pushed me to far i guess)

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      by shabby on April 25th, 2008

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