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by Anonymous on July 12th, 2005

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How can I become a better kisser?

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  • by Alonzo Garbonzo on August 5th, 2005

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    I assume from the question that someone has complained about his or her kissing. If so, I would suggest getting feedback. It's not easy for someone to express what's good or bad about the kisses they're getting. Other than "too rough" or "too limp" you may not get much to go on.

    It helps if you really enjoy kissing. It's one of the great experiences that life has to offer. You are enveloped in the presence of your lover, her scent, her breath, her warmth, her taste, the softness of her mouth and tongue. It could be more intimate than sex because there is no goal in kissing. It's pure pleasure.

    In order to lose yourself in kissing you have to relax. It's like floating on your back. If you can relax and drift in a dreamlike state, floating is very pleasurable. If you are anxious about sinking it's no fun. The trick is to be fully present in the moment and lose yourself. Think about nothing except how lucky you are to be in the presence of your lover, sharing such amazing pleasure. If you can be fully in the moment you won't be distracted with thoughts about what the kisses are leading to or how you are performing.

    Vernillat's suggestion to suck tomatoes is a good idea because kissing is similar to eating if you can really savor an exquisite food. Kissing is physical communication. For me, the best kind of kissing is soft and tender because you are in touch with your lover, showing her what you like. At the same time, you are getting gentle signals from her.

    The movie "The Man in the Moon" with Reese Witherspoon actually has some useful tips about kissing.

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