My girlfriend and I have heard that any girl can learn how to squirt. Both of us have tried but neither of us can do it. Is it truly possible to learn how to squirt, or is it exclusive to only some women?

i think that it might have alot to do with the comfort levels of "releasing"and the specific technique being used. some women might not "squirt" as much or as far as others, but the release of those fluids can be manipulated in such a way (not by the one who is squirting, by the technique being used ) that there is a forceful discharge. my girlfriend does it and she doesn't neccessarily know that she is doing it, and she nor i have any control on how much or how strong it is going to be. sometimes i have tried and it doesn't happen, other times it has been extreme! looking back, the most extreme time was when we hadn't been with each other (OR ANYONE ELSE) for a long period of time. the sexual tension and desires had built up all day/ night and through using the technique i know, the results blew my mind. she had no idea that it occured ( there is a sensation experienced but the woman may not recognize it) until she physically saw the aftermath. basically to my limited knowledge it occurs when the G spot has been stimulated, usually by intense and rigorous pressure or pumping. the first time i used the method, i did it at the time of orgasm after a long period of raising and lowering her clitoral stimulation (orally) in a calculated and controlled manner. i had studied this technique carefully before i attempted and i did not make her aware that i was trying to make her "squirt". it worked! i have noticed that during intercouse, positions that stimulate the G spot, alot of fluids are being released, but not squirting (probably due to the obvious impeding factors). it can be done with or without orgasm and is something that i have found, for us, depends alot on the build up of sexual desire. she is never "aware" that i am trying to do it. she also has a great amount of comfort with her body and my interaction with it. so, i believe that the secret lies in the development of a technique that works for the specific woman, trust, position of the body ( you might try it while your partner is standing up with one leg raised, it works the best for us ) the womans ability to fully release and let go of all control, sexual desire and build up of sexual stimulation. i might be wrong, and encourage any scientific proof that is just an ability only some posess, but i hope not. find all the information you can on the " female ejaculation" , be open minded to different methods, don't give up, try to avoid making "squirting" the primary goal and just focus on pleasuring your partner in new ways. hopefully, you'll be successful. or maybe i am just one lucky guy. :))