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by Spixxy on February 6th, 2004

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I cheated on my boyfriend and I want to forget about the whole thing. I think it would do no good if I told my boyfriend but I don't want to be dishonest. Should I tell him?

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  • by david askari on July 29th, 2005

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    The key here is a while ago. Time has gone by and things are getting normal. The best you could do is make things worst by being brutally honest. So how do you know if you should be honest? Ask yourself if you will disturb the peace and for how long. Put yourself in there place and think about how you would react for a few days. Or pick some of yours friends (maybe ask them) for your subject if you not sure what you would do. When a lot of time goes by, it is really unlikely that a wrong can be corrected. To many good things have happened in the meantime that are tied to the past.
    For example if a women slept one night with her husbands best friend and got pregnant. She did not ask herself if it was his or her husbands. Twenty years later she finds out it is his. Now he has three kids and great marriage. She is not under pressure to reveal the info now or in the future. Should she still go and tell her husband and best-friend and his family when they are all happy besides her own guilt? Is it worth the risk of disrupting the children's lives? and it will no matter how anyone takes the news.

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    • Hindsight would be absolete if we had that kinda foresight. If only we can arrange all the "if's" to fall in our favor. "What if" 20yrs later she finds out it's not his? Don't know why she would wait that long but sin

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      by webnewbie on October 25th, 2006

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