I'm not 18 im 17 so my dating still involves my girlfriends parents. My girlfriends mom found a very sexual note that i wrote to my girlfriend and now she accuses her of being a whore. Ooo ya Im not allowed to have any contact with her at all.

First, you're an idiot for writing sexual notes. Anything in writing can be used against you. Say it if you must, but don't write it.

Second, if you love the girl and you want to marry her, stick it out. It's not easy to find someone you really want to be with - don't throw it away the moment it gets hard. My parents weren't exactly cooperative in terms of me getting married (they didn't even come) but I'm not only glad my husband didn't walk when the going with my parents got tough, we've done a GREAT job of showing up my parents by having a good, happy, stable marriage after their dire predictions of us being divorced within a year and so on.

Don't walk... it's worth working on if it's worth having. It'll only make the resulting relationship stronger and happier.

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He was an idiot wasn't he?
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by Anonymous on March 17th, 2008
I am an idiot I relize this now but I wasnt thinking and I didnt have time to do what I wrote down but she wanted me to write it so I did.
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by Anonymous on March 17th, 2008
Listen to reason, boy!
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by Anonymous on March 17th, 2008
Funny how not thinking leads to idiocy. Still... it's not a reason to walk out either. You MIGHT want to consider holding off on doing some of those things you might have written down until after you're both 18... otherwise for most of a year you're liable to be in serious legal trouble. I'd try to keep it mature and above-board... go talk to them, talk about what you can do, let them know you're not going away just because things got rough, and whatever they say (and if they're calling her a whore, they're liable to call you names too) don't lose your temper. You'll get a long way if you can prove you can be adult about it.
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by Eltinwe has a life Swan - DYOH on March 17th, 2008
...and DON'T GET HER PREGNANT!!! You are far too young to have that happen.
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by Anonymous on March 17th, 2008
That too. I'm presuming if you're holding off on "those things" that's going to involve holding off on sex until you're both over-age. If you don't, you COULD end up in jail unless you're married, and for that her parents would have to sign the papers.
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by Eltinwe has a life Swan - DYOH on March 17th, 2008
Well said.
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