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by betz86 on December 15th, 2006

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My boyfriend's mother despises me for no reason. She's one of those women who hates any girl one of her three boys brings home. Should I try?

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  • by romelang1 on January 5th, 2007

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    Depends on your relationship with your boyfriend; If you haven't been seeing each other for very long it is probably worth persevering; If you've been together for -say- 6 months and his mother still dislikes you, then avoid her. Sooner or later he will make a choice one way or the other and the problem will be fixed.

    I had a similar experience but from the other side of the fence; I am the mother of three boys, and several years ago the 2nd one hooked up with this lady in Brisbane. She had been married twice before and had three kids. She was certainly different...loud and opinionated, secretive, controlling, like she had some sort of agenda... they lived with us for 7 weeks at one stage (her mother had the kids) and eventually moved to Adelaide and got married. I found out later that he'd actually married his drug dealer - no wonder he stuck with her! Anyway, as time dragged on it became obvious that this woman loathed me and I have no idea why. My son couldn't cope and tried to suicide twice, and several times was admitted to a psychiatric hospital in Adelaide. Several times he turned up on our doorstep (we live in Gippsland, Victoria) but always went back. I think she hated me because she saw me as a rival in her bid to totally control my son...(hey, not this little black duck - he is one of those people who should have been eaten at birth. He's 37 now and still doing the same crap - drugs, alcohol, been back living with us for two years, lost his license, pregnant girlfriend - holds down a job, but that's all he has going for him). They split up after three years and I have no idea where she is now, but the whole relationship was very odd!

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