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by Morphius on April 14th, 2004

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My girl and I had a threesome, me and her and another girl. Now she wants a threesome with me, her, and another guy. Do you think I should? Do I have to do things with him? What do I do if he approaches me during the threesome to do something?

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  • by Relsqui on June 17th, 2005

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    So I can only assume from the wording that you're not interested in having sex with someone who has a penis. Fair enough; it's a personal preference. If you're rejecting the idea automatically, you could consider whether you're willing to experiment, but absolutely do not go forward with something that makes you uncomfortable.

    If after thinking about it, you still don't want to do it, tell that your girlfriend. If you're mature about it ("I'm not comfortable with it" instead of "that's gross"), and point out that it wouldn't be enjoyable for you, which would make it hard for you to make it enjoyable for her, she'll probably drop it. She might want to know what your reasons are, but if you thought it through first you'll be able to tell her.

    On the other hand, if you just don't want to do something that could make you seem gay, there's no reason to reject the idea automatically. (I'm guessing here, but it does sound like you're more worried about the details than the idea in general.) Threesomes with any combination of sexes are common fantasies of straight guys. Having sex with you and another chick didn't turn your girlfriend into a lesbian; having a threesome with her and another guy won't make you gay.

    If you do decide to try it, you can avoid most of the problems you mention by talking to both your girlfriend and the other guy beforehand. You don't have to make a big production out of it, just say that you're not really interested in guys so you want the focus to be on your girlfriend. (That may well be what she had in mind anyway!)

    It's quite possible that the other guy is just as disinterested in you as you are in him, so it'll be no problem. (You could, for that matter, specifically seek out a straight guy for the purpose.) Otherwise, well, it's not really your problem unless he approaches you during sex despite what you said. The easiest way to get out of it then is to find something better to do with your mouth, hands, or penis. I'm sure your girlfriend can help you out with that.

    Good luck and stay safe.

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    • In porn it seems that sexual activity in a threesome between two women is "expected".

      Rarely is there any contact between men in a similar situation. They just fill her up. I suppose a DP is about as close as it gets with the connection between the vagina and anus.

      Big Spurt

      by Big Spurt on April 20th, 2008

    • expected is very different from wanted!

      ladyshakespeare

      by ladyshakespeare on April 2nd, 2009

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