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by Type_R on June 7th, 2005

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I'm 18, and sometimes I feel an extremely deep desire to have sex with my 14 year old sister. What should I do?

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  • by Kelly Masters on June 7th, 2005

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    Ok, first of all, thank you for coming here and asking a question that few would dare to utter. It shows courage on your part to want to do the right thing.

    Secondly, I assume you already know the answer and are seeking affirmation. It would be not only morally wrong to do this to such a young child, but it is also illegal. She is only 14 years old-still just a child, she knows nothing of grown-up ways and should remain ignorant of them for as long as possible. Imagine the burden that your sister would bear growing up knowing that her own brother took her virginity or had sex with her. This is something that could scar her for life and give her a rather twisted view of sex-something that should be a beautiful act between two adults.

    Please speak to your parents or another trusted adult in your neighborhood such as a pastor about these feelings that you have towards your little sister. You are her protector and she undoubtedly looks up to you as such, therefore you need to protect her from those who would do her harm-even if that person is yourself. Do you have a girlfriend? Are you sexually active? Why is it that you desire your own sister instead of an older girl more your age? Please, please, please do not take advantage of her trust in you. Once that trust is gone she will fear you instead of looking up to you and the relationship between the two of you will never be the same again. If you proceed with these feelings and your parents find out it could tear your entire family apart-is that what you would want?

    Until these feelings subside to a more manageable level, stay away from your sister as much as is humanly possible. Definitely speak to someone regarding this matter and have them help you find ways of dealing with your feelings in a positive way. Continue to be your sister's role model and show her by respecting her that love is the most wondrous gift ever given/received and she should respect her body and not let just anyone have an invitation to it.

    If you cross this line nothing will ever be the same again for either of you. There will be bitter fights for no clear reason between you two, she will pull away from you and could become suicidal and depressed because of what you did, she will blame herself for years to come-convinced that she did something wrong to make you take her sexually.

    Stop thinking about your own wants/desires and start thinking about her future before you ruin it. You are an adult-act like one and get your lust for your sister under control NOW.

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    • Agreed, but I also HIGHLY recomend seeing a psychologist about it, which will likely help provide you with more of an understanding as to why you're having this problem. Understanding WHY is one of the most effective ways of starting to solve a problem.

      Sanctus Insomnia

      by Sanctus Insomnia on December 9th, 2007

    • With all that money, you mean, Sanctus?

      denidowi

      by denidowi on December 10th, 2008

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