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by Anonymous on December 11th, 2006

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Im going on a first date with a guy. I'm afraid of the akward silent moments that occur from time to time. How can I avoid it? How can I break that silent moment if it occurs?

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  • by KineticSpirit on December 30th, 2006

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    Its through those silent moments, that you've wrongly labelled "awkward", where you'll make progress, find answers and truths about the other person & yourself and if you're both vibrating on the same frequency, which is critical for harmony.

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    ADDITION: You should also appreciate that the guy may have similar concerns and so don't assume that there is some burdensome responsibility on your shoulders to ensure it doesn't happen. In any event, you can only ever go 50% of the way in a situation - any more than that and you giving or taking more than is equitable, which isn't a sustainable basis for a relationship.

    Another thing is that if such a moment(s) arrives, you can use it to just look at each other and simply giggle/laugh about it, which will break the ice and relax you both a bit.

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