by Brady Smith on May 22nd, 2005

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Is a 5 year age difference a big deal when dating?

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  • by Robert McLaren on May 24th, 2005

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    That depends on the context. An 18 year old dating a 13 year old is trouble. A 28 year old dating a 23 year old isn't really even notable. Generally, the question goes to youth. Someone over the age of 18 must be VERY cautious in dating someone 5 years younger, because if they become sexually involved there may be serious legal ramifications. Additionally, while two people in their twenties or older are, more or less, peers with similar (one would hope) levels of maturation, the same cannot be said for younger couples, where one might still be struggling with high school issues while the other is in college or working. As a general rule of thumb I might suggest that teens not date anyone who is not within a couple of years of their own age.

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    • good answer.

      Lucas_

      by Lucas_ on May 24th, 2005

    • this was pretty useful as i'm experiencing this myself. hes 17 n i'm 12. what do i do?

      HeeHaw

      by HeeHaw on November 20th, 2005

    • Good, sensible answer

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on February 20th, 2006

    • HeeHaw i would say that you should leave him alone...actually he should be smart enough to leave you alone. There is NO reason a 17 yr old guy should be even intrested in a 12 year old girl. I would be disgusted with a female if she was trying to date my 12 yr old stepson if she was that age.

      Daisy85

      by Daisy85 on August 28th, 2007

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