I feel disgusting after having anal sex (for the first time) with my husband. It was a good experience, we both wanted to try it for a while. After I felt trashy, I told him I never want to do it again. Why do I feel this way?

We grow up with a lot of stimas in society about what is right and what is wrong. Something two adults choose to do, with each other, especially in a committed husband and wife relationship, that was pleasurable, should be cherished. You are lucky that both of you liked it and could use it to enhance your lovemaking and relationship. It can be hard to overcome what society raised us to believe. And, you aren't obligated to overcome those feelings.

Also, some people like to occasionally feel "trashy" and find it a turn on.

You might decide to let your husband tie you up or give control to him somehow so that when he decides to take you anally, it isn't your fault and you might not experience the guilt but enjoy the experience.

Whatever you decide, good luck!

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yep... you were "taught" it was "taboo", wrong, dirty... through society.. so you feel the same, even if you kind of liked it.

(ALSO, IT GETS BETTER IF YOU LET IT!)
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by Meadow Larke on January 25th, 2008

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