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by Kangermoo on May 7th, 2005

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My boyfriend had been talking to his exgirlfriends behind my back. He straight up lied to me about it cause he thought it would make me upset. The lies made me angry, but now I am uncomfortable with him talking to them, what should i do?

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  • by Lucas_ on May 8th, 2005

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    Your boyfriend is getting along well with his former girlfriends. That's no reason to worry. It doesn't mean that he will or even wants to cheat on you. He was together with these girls for a long time, and this often creates a friendship that goes on after the relationship. He should have told you about it, of course, but it's possible that he did tell a former girlfriend and that she reacted badly. Maybe he just didn't want you to worry about it.

    Here's something else to think about: Your relationship with your boyfriend will likely not last forever. Would you want to have him as a friend once the love is gone? And if you do: Would you want his next girlfriend to accept that?

    I think you should not distrust him for this. It's very likely he meant no harm.

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