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by ShadyLadyBoy on December 1st, 2006

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Have you ever had a threesome? If so, what was it like?

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  • by KineticSpirit on December 23rd, 2006

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    It sounds exciting and interesting but the reality is somewhat different.

    All three people must be fully comfortable with each other as often their various expectations can be quite different and any denial risks turning off the passion and excitement that has been built up.

    Usually, there will be 2 of the 3 who are close/intimate and who wish to invite the 3rd person to participate. This leads to an imbalance in proceedings, determines the energy of the "group" and defines who determines what happens and when.

    My mixed experiences have shown me that often the couple who invite the 3rd person are in some way unhappy, imbalanced, frustrated and seek to resolve these conditions by engaging in such activity.
    I didn't really know the people I met with and neither did I have enough time to know more about them or what they wanted, before it all happened.

    In the end, such engagements rarely lead to sexual fulfilment as there too many variables and desires to try and get right/satisfy, even without the above obstacles getting in the way.

    As a side note, the more people you add to such sexual formations, the more you tend to magnify the above, as well as introducing new dynamics to the situation, such as the psychology of the "group" - a can of worms in itself that requires a Masters in psychology in order to successfully navigate yourself around and through its complexities. And lets not forget the danger of health issues that await the careless or ill-informed.

    One on one is so much nicer, intimate and in the end, more satisfying in so many ways than the fantasy, the acting out of which rarely lives up to expectations.

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