by miRi hates social norms and regulations on January 10th, 2008

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What would you do if you got kicked out of your house as a freshman in college?

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  • by shammers still slogging along on January 10th, 2008

    shammers still slogging along

    It's said, "When you find yourself in a hole, stop digging." Don't ever do again what caused this problem. And it's a real problem. You weren't kicked out because you were being such a model resident. I suppose I'm a bit biased because I kicked my grandson out . . . I had told him there were only 2 rules . . . no drugs and no girls in when I wasn't at home. Don't care whether he or anyone else liked it . . . if he didn't he could have made other arrangements. First time he was screwed up, I told him to hit the road. Killed me. But my job is not to enable him . . . he's still bouncing around sometimes on the street waiting to hit bottom.

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    • i loveeeeee your answer =)
      [got kicked out of my dad's house last summer for disliking his wife, and when it came out i decided to leave, but then wasn't allowed back]

      i was worried about being kicked out of my mom's house for choosing to convert to another religion
      i don't think i was disobeying her rules, but i know i've hurt her deeply.
      i was more referring to a few friends though, their problem is actually that they're homosexual and it's causing hell for the fam. they've never brought anybody home or anything but just knowing i guess is too much for the fam.
      any advice?

      miRi hates social norms and regulations

      by miRi hates social norms and regulations on January 10th, 2008

    • I think it takes time for a family to absorb and adjust to what they might consider negative news. This probably wasn't in their hopes and dreams for thier children. Only because gay people often have things a bit harder. I think gay people are much more intelligent as a rule so I think with time, they will figure out what to do and this will all work out. Right now, they just have to focus on putting one foot in front of the other. Take life one day at a time and don'e try to anethesize themselves when things get hard. That can be a deadly choice. Life is a sonofabitch. It was never meant to be easy ala "The Road Less Traveled." Scott Peck

      shammers still slogging along

      by shammers still slogging along on January 10th, 2008

    • thank you for that, i'll probably forward that comment to them via email, because they need all the strength they can find.

      miRi hates social norms and regulations

      by miRi hates social norms and regulations on January 10th, 2008

    • You're welcome. And they will make it. Hopefully, they can talk with their parents. Family therapist or pastor/priest might be glad to facilitate.

      shammers still slogging along

      by shammers still slogging along on January 10th, 2008

    • Thats terrible, "hitting bottom" usually lands people in jail or with a real drug problem, it didnt "kill you" you obviously already hated him, nobody who really loves somebody would do that, youre just a bitch if were all giving opinions

      jdhansen

      by jdhansen on August 30th, 2010

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