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by troubledyounglady on April 19th, 2005

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6 months into my relationship, I cheated on my boyfriend. Is it fair for me to stay with him when I cheated and am more interested in the other guy?

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  • by ladyrose on April 19th, 2005

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    Have you told your boyfriend you cheated yet? The power of truth is amazing.Tell your boyfriend you cheated and see what he says .
    When I was engaged in 1999 I cheated on my fiancee and I told him abaout it. The other guy was not so interested in a long term relationship and I was so I spilled my guts to my fiancee thinking i would lose them both and he married me even though I had cheated.
    What you need to figure out is what you want first and then tell what happened if hes understanding he will work things out with you if you want them to be worked out . If things dont work out then you have a level to balance your next relationship on.

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    • I hope you like being married to a wimp!

      jwmbiz

      by jwmbiz on July 23rd, 2005

    • glad you worked things out - he sounds like a mature man to me , not a *wimp*

      Grandma Roses - my avatar is my real dog

      by Grandma Roses - my avatar is my real dog on October 5th, 2005

    • @jwmbiz: Really? You think all people who stay with people who have cheated are wimps? If so, you're not helping the stigma attached to these sorts of relationships. There are, believe it or not, exceptions. As long as ladyrose is genuinely remorseful for what she's done, how has her husband made the wrong decision?

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      by A on October 1st, 2009

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