Is it a big deal if a man holds his fist up to you during an argument but has NEVER laid a hand on? I told him he better never do that again & he said "You know I'd never touch you". Am I overreacting? I didn't like the look in his eyes

It's a threatening gesture and not to be taken lightly. You're not overreacting, nor do you have a guarantee he won't become violent. His ominous fist speaks louder than his disclaimers. When he does this, walk away. Protect yourself. If necessary, leave the house, or wherever you may be. However small the risk, it's not worth sticking around to find out if he's speaking the truth.

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Thank you
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by Little big mouth on December 1st, 2007
My pleasure Lisa and my best to you.
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by Anonymous on December 1st, 2007
I disagree with Anonymous, if you always run away from problems like that you are going to be a very lonely person, you have to ask yourself what got him to that point, then if YOU are still totally innocent then yes I agree with Anonymous. All people are different and don't try and change him into you, if you really love each other you have to find solutions to your problems. Sit down and think about what happened and can you solve it or not? If not call it a day. LOVE is having to put up with rhe things you don't like.
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by Stoney on March 16th, 2008
Dont get me wrong, Anonymous, if a relationship is abusive there is definetely no love left, then you get out before someone gets hurt. There is a very thin line between LOVE and HATE.
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by Stoney on March 16th, 2008
Stoney, The SOB took off out of state with my daughters car money. This is when I so wish I had Sicilian relatives, to get the 2 grand back
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by Little big mouth on March 16th, 2008

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