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by merrick on October 31st, 2005

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I allowed my long-distance girlfriend to hook up with another guy because it turned us on. Now she really wants to do it more and go further with the same guy. What does this mean?

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  • by Bonedry on December 10th, 2006

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    At first, it might just come as a notion, hummmmm, I wonder what it would be like...and then maybe as only a desire, Man, I just can't wait till we try...... and then it becomes as a want, Oh, babe, I really, really want to try this....and then it becomes a need, "C'mon Baby, one just has ta have it now, after one's been given a taste!

    Relationships are only as cohesive as we make them, and it's tough enough these days with-out partners heading down the road of non-convention. It's seen in the attitudes with-in them, as soon they become addressed upon the very lowest of levels. Meaning, that if one gets aroused by watching someone do the nassy to your "Boy/girlfriend" or "Husband/Wife" through to completion, and then pat the other on the back and say good job, then go jumpin on your sweetums yourself afterwards, can it really possible to be any lower, and still be considered a "Boyfriend and Girlfriend or expect a betrothed lasting union? It's been seen, when things are maintained at the lowest level upon any part, the whole of it will soon fall as well. The same is true of what our "Relationships" are supposed to be.

    One cant have great expectations with a union, when a major part of it comes completely devoid of respect, self-respect, love, and that silly notion of two sharing life as one? How can such ever transcend into that of multiple partners, or while being serviced by another ? We’ve all done it with our mate more than once in the night, right? How many times when inside one’s mate, has it happened when we were thinking about that second time were about to do it? We don't because sex is in the here and now, and well neither does anyone else while they’re at it, weather with another person while you watch, or are there in the mix having at with whom ever.

    Where we go is up to us, and I guess for me it always has been convention unto the one I give of myself, and to know through unity, I’ll never need anyone but my rightfully chosen. I guess the only way one can expect a partner to be straight up and want only them, is to always have that given before them as well. But, if one wishes to experiment with multiple this, and unconventional that, then do so, but only with the frame of mind, that where ever you go together in any part of the whole, eventually you go in kind unto the rest of it as well.

    I know I do tend to ramble on, and I’m sorry for keeping ya so long with my take on things. I guess I just could have said: To understand commitment, respect, and long lasting love in a relationship, one must know, it will ever be found where another person is sharing in that which is only supposed to be ours alone. Peace!

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