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by anonymus on February 24th, 2005

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I want more sex than my boyfriend does, and we fight about it. Now he feels inadequate and I feel undesired. Is there any way to work this out?

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  • by Ben Conover on March 3rd, 2005

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    There are a couple of ways to try and deal with this.

    1) The two of you should try and talk about the situation, while trying not to get overly emotional about it. Everyone's sex drive is different. You might want to talk about why you feel the need to have sex more then your boyfriend does and ask him, in a calm, non-judgemental way why he doesn't seem to want sex as much as you do. It may be that he may want to try some things such as anal sex, bondage, etc, but feels uncomfortable bringing those subjects up, which is understandable. The important thing is to try not to talk about the situation in a judgemental way.

    2) The two of you could go see a relationship/sex counselor. It is sometimes easier to work these sorts of things through when there is a thrid party who is less willing to judge, but acts as more of a sounding board. You might also have to pay a bit of money.

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    • I never thought of it as how you outlined in #1. Thanks - I will approach him on that.

      anonymus

      by anonymus on March 4th, 2005

    • it just says that you need to talk it out but even when talking doesnt work then what do you do it should explain that areato

      ladyrose

      by ladyrose on April 1st, 2005

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