by TheWiseMan on November 29th, 2006

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Women, what do you find least attractive in men that isn't a physical trait?

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  • by Angeleve on November 30th, 2006

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    The inability to be who they are and not who they think every woman wants.

    I am going to answer with what I like and you can take it from there.

    The ideal man for me... One that can be articulate in every aspect of life. One that can and will communicate through kind words. One that is not jealous of others but knows what he has. Alturism is important in a man, it shows his heart is in the right place. One that is well mannered but not pretentious. One that understands and sees when there is a problem without having to be told or reminded. He is funny and playful but strong. He is one that makes me feel safe and protected but at the same time respects my independance. Career minded and accepting of my career even if it is more desirable than his. Family oriented and spiritual, above all that loves and respects me as an equal no matter what!

    If not here it is in short

    Arrogance, disrespectful and uncaring are undesirable. For me if a man displays any or all of these behaviors with anyone I would not want to be with him. It is not how he treats me all the time, but how he treats humanity and life in general. After all they can only play it up for so long. But you can tell a lot about a person on how he treats the world around them. And this certainly applies to women also.

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    • Wow- a really thorough answer!

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on December 1st, 2006

    • lady fuschia do you think this is too mcuh to ask for?? I have yet to find this man.

      Angeleve

      by Angeleve on December 1st, 2006

    • Damn straight it applies to women too..good call..up points up!

      Redhawk

      by Redhawk on January 9th, 2007

    • I think I know a few. They're not always obvious at first glance though- you have to give them a fair chance to prove it.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on January 9th, 2007

    • you lookin for me then. lol

      bahaminb

      by bahaminb on June 25th, 2007

    • Angeleve you have just described my brothers! Sadly they are all married. I wish I could have found someone like my brothers too. Sigh.....

      sammy326

      by sammy326 on August 28th, 2007

    • A very impressive answer, :-)

      Zark424

      by Zark424 on November 5th, 2007

    • damn i struck out only everywhere here!

      Mildbill

      by Mildbill on December 31st, 2007

    • dont want much do you lol

      Scooot

      by Scooot on January 4th, 2008

    • You sound like one smart girl! I was going to render an answer of my own, until I read yours. I can't find anything else to add! All the best - Sara

      Sara Mercury

      by Sara Mercury on February 29th, 2008

    • This sounds like too perfect a person. If you did manage to find him he'd annoy you.

      Canoodle

      by Canoodle on March 16th, 2008

    • Give guys a break here will ya? You are describing probably a small percentage of the ideal man (1%). Most guys are too busy in the hunt their first 30 years before they decide to settle down. Those that think they're ready early end up in divorce court. We are like a piece of sculptured art and women are the masons creating the masterpiece. If they're not careful, caring, and sincere, major pieces fall off and can't be replaced so what you get is a broken, scarred, and a full of many flaws cast. Call it a corny analogy but it's true. A perfect matched set is what you want if you let us carve you out an image as well.

      Pete Parker

      by Pete Parker on July 31st, 2008

    • Great answer +100 - Sincerity leads to a great and loving relationship.

      I can't add any words, you placed them all and that is what I would expect from a woman.

      Hans Schecter

      by Hans Schecter on August 29th, 2008

    • I agree that this answer echoes how I feel too. I think that you have touched on many of the same ideas that I believe. Sincerity and respect are so very important. How can a man be attractive if he does not treat me as the person I am. Men and women are equal but different.

      cynthia

      by cynthia on September 20th, 2008

    • I enjoyed reading your answer...thank you.

      IAM

      by IAM on October 11th, 2008

    • Wow... very, very true. I agree 100%. And it is hard to find a guy like that, but it's hope that keeps women like us searching for him.
      <3

      earthy_kindred

      by earthy_kindred on October 31st, 2008

    • nice answer worth tob r8d A++
      My congratulations for such a kind of frank and helpful views. Thank you,

      Abu

      by Abu on November 23rd, 2008

    • As children we are scolded when we do things bad with an attempt to mold us into something good.
      Not very often are boys sat down & really explained how to treat girls or what they like. Boys are influenced to like blood & gore to be tough, to fight, to be mean, so a boy trying to be what a boy is supposd to be is rarely pleasing to the girl. Once puberty settles in it's like a drug or toxin that floods the brain & makes the boy desire sex like a horny dog, that's the first thing on his mind when he sees a pretty girl but the last thing on the girls mind. This is where the dating problems arise. The man must release frequintly before he can even think straight.

      Then beyond that the woman must reprogram the man to be what he should be. Any man that is a perfect gentleman was trained to be that way, it's not the nature of the male so quit waiting for Mr Right & get to training them, we are eager to learn but can't figure it out on our own.

      MisterMan

      by MisterMan on December 24th, 2008

    • Excuse me but thet sounds sexist Misterman. Girls have sex on their mind too but try to control it so they don't get pregnant.I had sex on my mind more thsn the guys did but I learned how to control it. Please don't speak for women if you don't know what you are talking about. The movies only show the male side of sex so maybe that is why you are mixed up!!

      blondie44

      by blondie44 on March 22nd, 2009

    • parts of what Man said may be considered sexist by some, but i highly doubt you truly understand what he means by "sex on their minds" blondie. when a man sees a woman (any woman, old, fat, with a beard, a peg leg) he immediately sees a flash of lust that is animalistic in nature. we immediately have a thought that lasts for a full millisecond of the perverted, filthy things we could do to her. if women have this bristling, untamed sexual energy, i would be highly surprised.

      and what Man said about boys being programmed to like and enjoy violence and anger is anything but sexist. though you will find a boy who doesn't believe in violence (i met a few) there are very few that do not have some form of a combative attitude.

      SigFreud27

      by SigFreud27 on June 16th, 2009

    • Excuse me if someones already brought it up, but i was wondering dont a lot of women find arrogance sexy in a man?

      TheMan---

      by TheMan--- on July 8th, 2009

    • Nope...not me..not in a man or a woman...a pompous ass is just a pompous ass...a bore! Someone who is doing things, but is actually HUMBLE...now THAT is sexy to me.

      Redhawk

      by Redhawk on July 9th, 2009

    • @TheMan: Arrogance is NOT sexy. It's annoying.

      A

      by A on November 26th, 2010

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