OMG! i got a big problem. i got nice, average sized boobs, and the guys never stop sneaking looks. What do i do?

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• But it feels violating sometimes if men ogle. At least for some women it does.

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  by JUSTNORMAL on November 14th, 2006

• plus...plus?! YOU THINK THAT THIS IS A PLUS? I'D RATHER GO BACK TO FOURTH GRADE FOR FLATNESS THAN HAVE THESE SMALL HILLS ON ME! MY GOD!

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  by luv-puppy-4ever on November 15th, 2006

• Ok, my 19year old live in boyfriend answered this for me when i asked him the same question about boobs and butts.
  He answered "Because they move around. It's exciting to watch them move on their own and the bigger the better."
  So while us women are worried about the size of our butt and if it's to big, men don't care. All they see are curves (which is something that men look for in a woman's figure, even if it's unintentional, curves catch a man's eye quick) PLUS the curves are bouncing around on their own. Think of it as an interactive activity for men. That may sound like instructions for a 5 year old but that's close to the way it is.
  I wrote a whole article on how to understand a mans need for porn detailing why men are so visually stimulated (sexually) in comparison to women being more mentally stimulated sexually. Ehow.com took it down for some reason, but it was a very good article.
  I called it the 4 B's, BIG BOUNCING BUTTS AND BOOBS.
  As a woman, breasts are not much use to me

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  by bludlettingudie on December 4th, 2009

• As a woman, breasts are not much use to me and wearing a bra is a pain. For a man, the pain staking task of taking off a womans bra isn't really pain staking at all. It's more of an adventure for them, especially if he's never seen them or touched them before. I can see why breasts would be fun to play with. Men can do a lot of fun things with breasts and watching them bounce around during sex is very stimulating for them because it's VISUAL stimulation on top off everything else his body is feeling.
  Then there is the whole biological reasoning for the fixation men have on breasts.
  However ladies of all ages, don't blame the men for something that they can't help. Don't act like you don't look at a lean, muscular young man's body and think "WOW, OMG". Women do it too.
  Women of all ages, who haven't taken the time to try and understand the opposite sex and their natural tendencies, call men perv's (or worse)for staring at their breast. We find it rude, insulting, embarrassing and annoy

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  by bludlettingudie on December 4th, 2009

• OWe find it rude, insulting, embarrassing and annoying amongst other things. Then there are the women who have taken the time to figure men out and understand that it's ok for him to be staring. All he's really doing is saying "WOW, OMG what I could do with those, I wish she would jump up and down."
  It may seem degrading to some women to know that their body is thought of in such a way by completely strange men everywhere. What women need to understand is that it's not the man's fault. He literally can't help it. It is what they are preprogrammed to look for in a woman. A woman's curves do for men what catnip does for cats. I'll say it again, THEY CAN'T HELP IT!
  "yes they can, they know they are looking." Yeah they know about right after they realize they have been staring for more than 10seconds, mesmerized. By the time they realize they are staring it's to late. It's a lot like the "I'm ok" female automated response after your man/boyfriend has asked you what is wrong. (as a woman,

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  by bludlettingudie on December 4th, 2009

• (as a woman, i still hadn't figured out why we do that)
  I know that the "4 B's" concept can be hard to understand as a women, but do you, as a women, expect men to understand why you cry all the time, or why you are so emotional? (if your answer is yes, then you need to stop expecting men to be female and read your mind) It's pretty much the same thing. You have to try and put yourself in the mans shoes, try to think of it from his perspective, positively. Men are not NEAR as complex as women therefore they aren't that hard to understand at all.
  If none of this has helped, then try to think of it this way "wow, he's staring at my boobs. He must like what he see's". Take it as a compliment, cuz that's exactly what it is.
  I don't know of a single guy that stares a woman's tit's just to make her feel less than what she is or is worth.

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  by bludlettingudie on December 4th, 2009

• Blud....you are the most sensible woman I think I have ever encountered.

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  by writemyselfaletter on December 8th, 2009