by pericynthion on August 16th, 2007

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Is it possible to have a 3some with another guy and my wife and still keep our relationship strong?

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  • by Mushen on August 16th, 2007

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    On rare occassions, things are OK but on the whole, this is akin to opening Pandora's Box - you are inviting a 3rd party into your relationship and this has the potential to destroy your marriage and relationship. It really is a minefield. For example, what would you do if you brought this guy in and you both had sex with your wife and she found him more attractive that she did you? Would you be standing watching thinking, "she's not like that with me". See what I mean, pandora's box is it not?

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    • It's not necessarily into "the relationship"- just the bedroom. Some couples can keep that life seperate. Some people can't and its not for everyone. But it can very much breed jealousy. This is why it's good to talk it all out FIRST, and go through any and every idea that comes through your mind. Everyone needs to be comfortable with this, otherwise it won't work.

      Penny The Wise

      by Penny The Wise on August 17th, 2007

    • By inviting a third party into your bedroom you are inviting them to share the most intimate and personal part of your relationship. Totally agree that it needs to be discussed and every idea talked about and total honesty is vital. Would you be comfortable with it? I've never given it much thought before now and don't know if I could do it or not.

      Mushen

      by Mushen on August 17th, 2007

    • I have done it, but not in my current relationship. This relationship- I'm iffy because I don't trust many women- I'd be worried they'd try and go after my man. It'll take someone "special" to get me to invite them. But if all were perfect, I certainly wouldn't have any problem with it. It's certainly not for everyone, that's for sure. But as we agree, there would be much discussion about it.

      Penny The Wise

      by Penny The Wise on August 18th, 2007

    • Wow. That's the only thing I can think of to say. WOW!!!

      Mushen

      by Mushen on August 19th, 2007

    • Um, is that a "good" or a "bad" wow?

      Penny The Wise

      by Penny The Wise on August 19th, 2007

    • Definitely, without a doubt a GOOD WOW!!!!

      Mushen

      by Mushen on August 19th, 2007

    • Oh hehehe.

      Penny The Wise

      by Penny The Wise on August 19th, 2007

    • I agree with Penny. The man is invited to join you for sex and fun, not for deep talk and romantic notions. That should be ONLY for the couple. My wife and I view men like that as likable sex toys, and they know that from the beginning. We've had no relationship problems whatsoever that are related to our outside sex.

      Normal1

      by Normal1 on January 21st, 2012

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