I made a horrible mistake and cheated on my fiance with my ex boyfriend. im in love with my fiance .the ex called my fiance and told him everything . i was asked to admit it,i did and he threw me out.i want him back!im dying. what do i do? please help me

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• No, no, this is no biggie. she still has some feelings for her ex.that doesn't mean she doesn't love her fiancee. An apology is in order, next time she should be more discreet and make love with someone she can trust. Her old BF is really the creep here.

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  by Stronghart on February 10th, 2008

• I'm sorry...I don't want to cause any trouble but...how is that not big? It's really big. What ever happened to discipline?

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  by UneFille on February 11th, 2008

• LOL at Stronghart

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  by donttrustme on February 23rd, 2008

• @Stronghart- No biggie? Wow, I don't think I even need to explain how wrong you are.

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  by A on August 11th, 2009

• Sorry children. It is not the worst thing in the world. Had my husband dallied I would have accepted his apology. People make mistakes, not every one is tied to a ball and chain.Strong is right. No biggie.

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  by patpatroney on August 12th, 2009

• Let us know your opinion after you find out he had an affair behind your back.

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  by A on August 13th, 2009

• Gay Talese on infidelity.
  
  "Here's what people don't get. Sex is not that important. It isn't the most important thing in any relationship. Marriage is never about sex, and yet in American fiction so many stories and novels present a sexual dalliance ans an unpardonable sin. (In real life) I never thought that should be true. Marriage is the main event. These other relationships bring me into worlds I would otherwise not know. These relationships have helped our marriage. ..I think of all these people who get divorced over minor matters...I don't see how people can live in conventional marriages. "
  
  Gay Talese has a fifty year marriage with a very accomplished,independent and fiscally successful wife.

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  by centrator on August 14th, 2009

• Great answer Gracin! +6 Jonathan

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  by Jonathan on August 14th, 2009

• ha ha! Good answer Gracin =o) People may think that infidelity id 'no biggie' but just because they may think that (for whatever reason, whether it's their insecurity, lack of love for the partner, selfishness or its an agreed relationship 'perk' consented by both adults) doesnt mean that it's right for everyone! each couple makes their own rules and boundaries! dont listen to the preachers who tell you there is one right and wrong way! in this case, infidelity was the WRONG way. obviously the cheated parntner is very hurt! And i am sure the cheater (if roles were reversed) would be equally as hurt!...but there again...there would always be the ex to fall back on...

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  by Anonymous on November 23rd, 2009

• First of all I agree that infidelity is not the"worst thing in the world, and that "it is no biggie." But I am interested in this ex of Ponette. The guy who takes her to bed and then calls her fiancee. What a jerk.
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  What about discretion? What a child. These kids must have been teen-agers for everything to have happened as Ponette described. Infidelity--all right--but let's have a little discretion.

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  by FastWoman on November 23rd, 2009