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by Secretive Woman on February 5th, 2012

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I have been unemployed since Oct 2010, tomorrow I am supposed to start a new job, I will be working in the same company my mom works at but in a different building. I told my potenial employers i would give job a try since it is different from anything i have ever done before. I have been DREADING going to new job this whole weekend and I told the interviewers that I would think about position over weekend and IF I decided not to take job call them by Monday. I have a 22 month old daughter and I was hoping that I could start work when she was talking in full sentences. I was telling my mum that I would feel so hurt if she, or my hubby calls me to work to tell me that my daughter spoke a full sentence and I MISSED it. My mum tells me to not worry about this, but I do, I just hate to be left out. I am hoping that something happens either with the nanny or the job so that I DO NOT have to start this job just yet.: ( The nanny who usually wathces our child if I have to work is working for someone else so hubby and I spent this weekend scrambling to find someone else who we hope is just as patient, pleasant and competent. i was praying that we would not find anyone. We plan to let my mum watch our duahgter this coming week and have this new lady come in for 1 hr in the evening after work to see how she and our daughter interact cus we do not want to trust our child with ANY OLD PERSON, then if she is ok she starts work full time the following week.RATS! All this makes me soooooo sick that I have to leave my child AGAIN to work BUT other mothers have done it, but I hate it. On a good note, me working would be good so that I could help pay some of the bills and we could have enough money to keep us afloat till hubby is paid at month end. Everyone feels I should take job UGhhhhh....Any thing to say???

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  • by Wellduh on February 5th, 2012

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    You are just having a panic thought at leaving your child. There are going to be many firsts that you miss even if you stay home with her. To be honest, if you told me you would let me know if you would take the job on the day you were to start I would have told you to forget it. Your daughter needs to be with other people. What if something happened to you and she was suddenly thrust into the care of strangers. It is good for her to learn to socialize. I think it will be good for you to get out and be around other people also. You stress way too much over the little things and having a job will help keep your mind busy.

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