My boyfriend told me that sometimes when I'm asleep he has sex with me. Is this rape?

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• That is true good answer Shelby :)

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  by .....----- on August 4th, 2007

• Thanks CG

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  by Shelby on August 4th, 2007

• Your welcome.

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  by .....----- on August 4th, 2007

• there have been reports of people that have "sleep sex" i saw a documentry on it once. it was wierd! there was a guy who world wake up on top of his wife while she was asleep and he'd just had just done it with her without knowing.

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  by Seraphim Shinobi on August 4th, 2007

• It is possible to sleep through it if you are very tired.

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  by Gracin the Strange on August 4th, 2007

• I personally be able to. Especially if the guy was any good, or any bigger than a pencil.

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  by Shelby on August 4th, 2007

• to sleep ? i think i wouldn't .

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  by .....----- on August 4th, 2007

• I have actally had to ask my husband if he had sex with me while I was sleeping and he says yes and seems suprised that I dont remember. It is usually when I am extremely tired that I sleep so sound that even sex wont wake me.

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  by Gracin the Strange on August 4th, 2007

• Huh. I've never heard of that...

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  by Shelby on August 4th, 2007

• Me neither.

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  by .....----- on August 4th, 2007

• I sense a question coming from this thread...

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  by Shelby on August 4th, 2007

• People CAN sleep through it. I had sex with my boyfriend once at night, and I thought he was awake, because I figured like you guys that no one can sleep through sex. He even said my name and moved me in different positions! Yet, afterwards, I had to wake him up and ask him if he knew what had just happened. He didnt remember a thing!

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  by girlbi on February 10th, 2010

• I actually went through the same thing. I fell asleep in my car with my boyfriend after telling him i didnt want to do anything, that i didnt want to have sex. i had had a long week, little sleep, worked a long day, and it was late at night. i fell asleep and woke up to him having sex with me. i was so out of it and so groggy that it took me a while to wake up and realize what was going on apparently since it had already gotten to that stage. it IS possible to sleep through it, especially if you are tired enough. its something i regret even now, and when i talked to a woman at my local planned parenthood about it she told me that it was date rape, even when i didnt fight him off after i woke up. by that point i didnt want to fight anymore because we had been earlier and so i just lay there until it was over. she said that not fighting doesn't mean it was not rape because i had said i didnt want to and he had taken advantage of me. but yes it is possible to sleep through it

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  by sunny13 on November 6th, 2010

• my wife did, i penetrated her from behind, she acted like she was awake but the next day she didnt knew a thing.
  I like to touch my wife while she is asleep, then i can do things i cant do if she is awake because she dont like those things. I pinch her breasts, pull her nipples, or play with her breast with my penis. or i go even further; like fingering her and if she is willing i have intercourse with her while she is asleep. She knows i do that sometimes so she is aware of it and bare with it too. I totally like it when she wakes up all aroused and want me to finish it off. Am i a creep or is it 'normal'. Oh yeah, we also have normal sex too (sometimes) lol

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  by i_like_boobs on November 22nd, 2011

• im def a heavy sleeper and have slept through it. the only thing that wakes me up is a crying baby and not till i knew he was doing it did it wake me up

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  by MaryJane_H on April 26th, 2012