by wojoangel on July 29th, 2007

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Females, If you were raped and became pregnant would you consider an abortion? Why or why not?

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  • by Marj on July 29th, 2007

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    No I would not have an abortion. Yes it was unplanned so are many. Yes the guy forced himself on me and it was horribal. There comes a time in your life when you have to put childish thoughts away and live like an adult. Maybe you feel it to be unfair but life is almost never fair. That child is half you. That child did nothing wrong. I personaly would keep my kid and overpower the thoughts but there is always adoption.

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    • Wow.

      khammer

      by khammer on June 17th, 2008

    • childish thoughts?

      773491

      by 773491 on June 17th, 2008

    • Dumbass response 773491.

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on July 2nd, 2008

    • For something that is a dumbass response there sure seem to be more than a few people who agreed with my answer.

      Marj

      by Marj on July 7th, 2008

    • unfortunately more than a few people in America don't accept Evolution. This is not an argument, and I was just saying that to consider both alternatives in such important choice with impact on one's life is not childish thinking.

      773491

      by 773491 on July 7th, 2008

    • matter of opinion, considering taking a life for your own selfish or emotional issues that has nothing to do with the innocent child seems childish to me.

      Marj

      by Marj on July 8th, 2008

    • stop using the word child, it is a fetus. I've said this already eight times in this question!!!

      773491

      by 773491 on July 8th, 2008

    • Okay you can say it till your blue in the face I am not going to changed my mind no matter how many bs excuses you throw at me. A fetus becomes a child if you do not destroy it.

      Marj

      by Marj on July 8th, 2008

    • 773491 is a dumbass

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on July 9th, 2008

    • what a good argument you faith-head.

      773491

      by 773491 on July 9th, 2008

    • dumbass

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on July 9th, 2008

    • wow what a comeback. Let's have a discussion on kindergarten niveau: Faith-head!

      773491

      by 773491 on July 9th, 2008

    • Sry fearfulkitty. And 773491 why are you getting so hateful with me? Did I say you cannot kill "your" children. No I simply answered the question with my opinion. That is what this site is for. If it offends you so much maybe you should not come to the site. Oh and I have no idea what a faith-head is.

      Marj

      by Marj on July 10th, 2008

    • I'm getting hateful with fearfulkitty, not you. Altough it's annoying me that you are still using the term 'kill children', some people never learn... And as long as you say that you think I'd have the right to abort (if I was a women), I'm fine with that since it is not 'pro abortion', it's 'pro CHOICE.

      773491

      by 773491 on July 10th, 2008

    • Like I said, becomes a child. Anyways If you were a woman it would be your choice and I would not knock you for it. Not my place. I simply answered a question on answerbag with the answer I "believe" to be correct.

      Marj

      by Marj on July 15th, 2008

    • Yes I respect your opinion, I just didn't like it that you called the consideration of an abortion "childish thoughs".

      773491

      by 773491 on July 15th, 2008

    • But if you support abortion you are pro abortion, why would you have trouble saying that if there was nothing wrong with it? And why hate the fearfulkitty? And what in the HELL is a faith head? ANd at the end of the day 773491 what are you really protecting? Why do you feel so strongly that a woman has to have the right to choose?

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on July 15th, 2008

    • Because this is not what I'm saying. Pro-abortion would be someone who want's to abort every pregnancy that is somewhat unplanned. I accept that it has some moral questions, but I just think it's the right of the women to choose.
      You saw that this thread went out of control, I'm glad we could have a somewhat normal discussion in the other one. I said I was getting hateful because you called me dumbass just for my views. I hope we're done with that stuff...

      773491

      by 773491 on July 15th, 2008

    • sure

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on July 15th, 2008

    • In my opinion for me it would be a childish thought to abort for my own selfish reasons. TO be quite honest that is most likely how I would feel about someone else doing it as well. But, I do not judge on it because I am not them and there is no way for me to understand completely what is going on in there head. I do not judge until I know all of the facts and that is something no matter what can never happen. I believe if you want to do something do it. Don't worry about what others think because at the end of the day it is not about anyone but yourself.

      Marj

      by Marj on July 16th, 2008

    • that's a good view.

      773491

      by 773491 on July 16th, 2008

    • It's a thing that isnt alive. A woman should be able to choose whether or not she wants her whole life to be taken up.
      Im sure any man would want that choice. Id give my girl 1000 percent support whatever her decision.

      Gonzo

      by Gonzo on December 11th, 2008

    • It most certainly is alive..even if at a cellular level..it's alive. Cells are living organisms & for a pregnancy to occur it is called a Zygote made up of 8 cells, I believe, at the time of implantation into the wall of the uterus. But very much alive. It's been a long time since I studied anatomy but it's not long at all before the baby can experience pain even. From a religious aspect it also has a soul at the time of conception (it would only be 2 cells at that time- a combined sperm & egg). But I realize for those that aren't religious that prob doesn't mean much but anyway, thought I'd throw that out there.

      Bubbasmisty

      by Bubbasmisty on March 2nd, 2009

    • yes, the biggest part of the controversy is because of those 'religious aspects'. But since this is about the law and morality, religion doesn't have any authority. We have separation of church and state. As long as those people don't prove that souls exist, their arguments are just not valid.
       
      The other case that can be made against abortion is biological, if the fetus/child can feel pain. That's why thre is a limit up to what time of pregnancy one can abort.

      773491

      by 773491 on March 3rd, 2009

    • "A fetus becomes a child if you do not destroy it."
      A sperm can become a child if you do not destroy it. Is every man going to Hell for catching it in a napkin and disposing of it?

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on March 3rd, 2009

    • Yes. Yes they are.

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on March 3rd, 2009

    • Wow. So I guess you're against any type of contraception too?

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on March 3rd, 2009

    • That was a joke. Look, life is precious and I think your "side" is a little too cavalier about ending it. I personally am not worried about an egg or a sperm that fails to connect, the body naturally dumps both so I can't believe that God is angry at us for that...but once an egg is fertilized, the process of life has begun.

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on March 3rd, 2009

    • What is morally good about bringing a child into this world who was conceived in a brutal raping by a diseased rapist?

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on March 3rd, 2009

    • Why is the child responsible for his conception? Many beautiful things come out of horror.

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on March 3rd, 2009

    • The child is not responsible for the conception because the child doesn't exist yet.
       
      The mother is not responsible for the conception either. She has already had her freedom taken away from her by her attacker. Why take anymore from her? She should have a choice about whether or not she wants to raise a child born with disease. She should have the choice about whether or not she has to give birth to the child of a rapist.

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on March 3rd, 2009

    • In your opinion that child does not exist. The victimization has already occurred and there will be many consequences for the victim that they will need to deal with. How does ending a pregnancy make this somehow better?

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on March 3rd, 2009

    • Not only in my opinion, in most biologists' professional opinion. Why do you consider a fertilized egg any more of a life than the separate sperm and egg?

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on March 3rd, 2009

    • I think I answered that already. It has begun the the process of life. Liberals are funny. You object to the destruction of life in the environment, but support it inside yourselves. I really don't get it.

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on March 3rd, 2009

    • Okay but why is the fertilized egg the beginning of the process of life? Why isn't the sperm's journey to the egg considered the beginning of that process?

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on March 3rd, 2009

    • This is how I see it. Sperm is ejected from the male body without male consent if it builds up to a certain level (aka wet dreams). The unfertalized egg is ejected naturally after ovulation by a woman's period. The fertalized egg, if left alone and there is no other natural complication, will develop into a human being. Sure we all have our opinions as to when that fertilized egg will be given legal rights, but the process the leads to a live human has begun.

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on March 3rd, 2009

    • Yes but if the sperm is ejected into the female body then the sperm starts its journey to fertilize the egg.
       
      Are you saying that you don't consider the sperm's journey the beginning of the process of life because sperm can be ejected without male consent and in many cases will not fertilize an egg?

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on March 3rd, 2009

    • I guess. What I think I am saying is that if a man masturbates (and believe me we all do) he is not ending life or interfering with its inception. We can produce more than enough sperm.

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on March 3rd, 2009

    • "he is not ending life or interfering with its inception"
       
      Isn't abstinence interfering with inception?

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on March 3rd, 2009

    • In a way. Sexuality is a lot like nuclear fission. It has to be dealt with responsibly.

      fearfulkitty

      by fearfulkitty on March 3rd, 2009

    • This is bullshit. It's not a living thing. My wife had an abortion recently. It all comes down to what the Bible bashing church are telling you. Science will tell you the truth.
      And fearfulkitty, most women masturbate too.

      Gonzo

      by Gonzo on March 3rd, 2009

    • So if abstinence is interfering with inception then it should be frowned on like abortion?

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on March 4th, 2009

    • Abortion should not be frowned upon. It's not really in Britain cos the majority here arent religious.

      Gonzo

      by Gonzo on March 4th, 2009

    • I agree but not everyone here does.

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on March 4th, 2009

    • Its fucking ridiculous. Why not give rights to a fucking blade of grass.

      Gonzo

      by Gonzo on March 4th, 2009

    • Neither do most aborted fetuses. Most people that are pro-choice advocate abortions very early in the pregnancy, before a heartbeat is detected.

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on April 20th, 2009

    • Yes, exactly.
      When it has no feeling, cant think, it isnt alive.

      Gonzo

      by Gonzo on April 20th, 2009

    • Maybe so, but you know, if people dont want a baby they shouldnt be forced to have one. Every should have a choice.

      Gonzo

      by Gonzo on April 21st, 2009

    • I find it absolutely ridiculous how people act like the thing is living straight away. The woman in this question knew she could be pregnant straight away!! She wouldnt have to wait 28 days then suddenly realize oh my god I might be pregnant.
      A day after sex it's a nothing. It's a load of cells. Treating it like or even calling it a 'child' is abolutely pathetic.

      Gonzo

      by Gonzo on April 21st, 2009

    • According to a pediatrician who has been pregnant, most of the time heartbeats are detected at 10 weeks but can possibly be detected at 8 weeks.

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on April 21st, 2009

    • Can you not read? Ill repeat what I just wrote maybe you can bother to read it properly.

      I find it absolutely ridiculous how people act like the thing is living straight away. The woman in this question knew she could be pregnant straight away!! She wouldnt have to wait 28 days then suddenly realize oh my god I might be pregnant.
      A day after sex it's a nothing. It's a load of cells. Treating it like or even calling it a 'child' is abolutely pathetic.

      Gonzo

      by Gonzo on April 21st, 2009

    • Yes. I've been on your side this entire time. Maybe you should read what I've been writing properly.

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on April 21st, 2009

    • lol.

      773491

      by 773491 on April 24th, 2009

    • Appy-polly-ollogies man.
      Im getting too used to these idiots suggesting people shouldnt have a choice.
      Isnt America supposed to be the land of the free.

      Gonzo

      by Gonzo on April 24th, 2009

    • Supposed to be.

      Aquatic Eagle

      by Aquatic Eagle on April 24th, 2009

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